Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
Later, when the pupils were known to be planning a hallowe’en party, Mr.
Harley announced that he would suspend every pupil who attended any
party at any time during the school year, without first securing his
permission, and that such permission would be given only very rarely.
A storm of protest from the pupils was seconded by several mothers, who
called upon Mr. Harley to discuss the social aspect of education.
When, after a nerve-racking day, he told Mrs. Hines, the leading society
woman of the village, that he must carry out his own plans _unaided by
the parents_, he unwisely aroused the opposition of so many of his
patrons that his work in Jamesville was very seriously handicapped and
he resigned at the end of his first year there.
CONSTRUCTIVE TREATMENT
A Parent-Teachers’ Club should be organized in every school. Early in
the year a meeting of the club should be devoted to the discussion of
out-of-school-hour entertainments. The superintendent should have the
pros and cons presented before the club by both parents and teachers.
The teacher who upholds parties should advise mothers to talk often with
their children upon the subject of desirable companions; to forego all
teasing of the sons and daughters about “girls” and “beaux”; and to see
to it that the young people have wise chaperons.
COMMENTS
Much of the mischief that arises from parties is due to parents.
Realizing this to be the case, teachers should find a way to talk to
mothers about how to win and hold the confidence of their children
during the trying high school period. The girls should also be
admonished by their teachers to talk to their mothers freely about their
social affairs.
ILLUSTRATION 1 (HIGH SCHOOL)
Miss Fanson was a high school teacher who was justly admired by the
girls under her care. She had talked to the girls about the deference
and homage which they should show to their parents in social matters.
Alice Grant believed that Miss Fanson was exactly right, hence was
willing to act upon her teacher’s advice.
Since she had entered high school, boys had suddenly become very
interesting to Alice. She blushed one afternoon as she plucked up her
courage to reveal certain developments to her mother.
“Mother, the Freshmen are going to give a party, and a boy in my German
class has asked me to go. May I?” Her voice affected indifference.
[Sidenote: Retaining Control]
But Mrs. Grant knew her young daughter and saw through that coolness.
Her Alice was excited and flushed and happy over a boy! And she stared
blankly for a moment as the realization forced its way. Then a
tempestuous refusal from a heart that resented her little girl’s growing
up sprang swiftly to her lips, but she kept back the words. It did,
indeed, hurt to have Alice begin to be a young lady, but could even she,
the most adoring of mothers, restrain time and the youth that was
blossoming in her child?
“I’ll have to think it over, Alice. I’ll tell you in the morning.”
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