Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
At a late hour the guests took their leave. But Ralph, lingering after
the others had left, talked over the party with Mary and her mother, for
the former was too excited to want the evening to end.
“How did you like the girls?” Mary inquired, eagerly. And just then Mrs.
Turner found an excuse to leave the room.
“Very much, little cousin. They’re a jolly lot of youngsters. And I’m
quite struck with one of them.”
“Oh, I knew you would be. Cecily, of course!”
“Cecily! O, no!” His emphasis was expressive.
“Not Cecily?” Mary was bewildered.
“That would-be chorus girl with come-hither eyes?” he demanded, and
then, seeing her stricken face, added hurriedly, “But maybe she’s a
special friend of yours.”
“Oh, no,—that is,—not so very. But she’s awfully popular.”
“With only one kind of boys, then, and that’s not the sort I’d like to
see you running round with, cousin mine. The girl that took my eye
was—her name was—Evelyn. She’s a peach. Ask me over some time again when
she’s here, will you?”
Mary nodded a little uncertainly, and then promised.
“Mother,” she said, wonderingly, as Mrs. Turner entered the room, “Ralph
likes Evelyn. And she certainly did look pretty tonight. I’m—crazy about
her myself!”
And as Mrs. Turner squeezed her nephew’s hand, she felt somehow that a
new name was about to be substituted for “Cecily” in Mary’s vocabulary.
Miss Canfield listened attentively to the mother’s report of the party
and of Mary’s drift into better companionship and naturally lent aid to
the scheme in a dozen little ways—assignments of team work, comments to
Mary on certain lovely qualities in Evelyn and her type of girl,
recommendation of books and magazine articles, etc.
Mother and teacher accomplished an important piece of work by this
campaign in which they substituted, in the unformed mind of a school
girl, a correct model of young womanhood in place of a degraded type.
4. Falling in Love with the Teacher
When pupils fall in love with their teachers, the problem is not nearly
so serious as the same event would be out of school, for the reason that
every normal tradition of school relations is against such a state of
affairs. The teacher stands, as is said so often, _in loco parentis_;
and if teachers are fit to bear this relation to their pupils, they can,
and will, easily handle any tendencies toward too intimate relations
with their pupils. The treatment for a pupil who develops too ardent an
admiration for a teacher is based upon the process of de-personalizing
the relations between them; for almost always it will be found that when
pupils have fallen in love with their teachers, it is because, purposely
or unconsciously, the relations have been too personal.
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