Had Jane been possessed of less exuberance of fancy, she might have been
a little at a loss to identify all these good properties with her hero:
or had she possessed a matured or well-regulated judgment to control
that fancy, they might possibly have assumed a different appearance. No
explanation had taken place between them, however. Jane knew, both by
her own feelings and by all the legends of love from its earliest days,
that the moment of parting was generally a crisis in affairs of the
heart, and, with a backwardness occasioned by her modesty, had rather
avoided than sought an opportunity to favor the colonel's wishes.
Egerton had not been over anxious to come to the point, and everything
was left as heretofore: neither, however, appeared to doubt in the least
the state of the other's affections; and there might be said to exist
between them one of those not unusual engagements by implication which
it would have been, in their own estimation, a breach of faith to recede
from, but which, like all other bargains that are loosely made, are
sometimes violated when convenient. Man is a creature that, as
experience has sufficiently proved, it is necessary to keep in his
proper place in society by wholesome restrictions; and we have often
thought it a matter of regret that some well understood regulations did
not exist by which it became not only customary, but incumbent on him,
to proceed in his road to the temple of Hymen. We know that it is
ungenerous, ignoble, almost unprecedented, to doubt the faith, the
constancy, of a male paragon; yet, somehow, as the papers occasionally
give us a sample of such infidelity; as we have sometimes seen a
solitary female brooding over her woes in silence, and, with the
seemliness of feminine decorum shrinking from the discovery of its
cause, or which the grave has revealed for the first time, we cannot but
wish that either the watchfulness of the parent, or a sense of self-
preservation in the daughter, would, for the want of a better, cause
them to adhere to those old conventional forms of courtship which
require a man to speak to be understood, and a woman to answer to be
committed.
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