Prejudices, fifth seriesMencken, H. L. (Henry Louis)
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Prejudices, fifth series
Mencken, H. L. (Henry Louis)
American essays -- 20th century; American literature -- History and criticism; Literature -- History and criticism
This concept of the home cannot survive the mode of life that prevails
in New York. I have seen it go to pieces under my eyes in the houses of
my own friends. The intense crowding in the town, and the restlessness
and unhappiness that go with it, make it almost impossible for anyone
to accumulate the materials of a home--the trivial, fortuitous and
often grotesque things that gather around a family, as glories and
debts gather around a state. The New Yorker lacks the room to house
them; he thus learns to live without them. In the end he is a stranger
in the house he lives in. More and more, it tends to be no more than
Job No. 16432b from this or that decorator’s studio. I know one New
Yorker, a man of considerable means, who moves every three years. Every
time he moves his wife sells the entire contents of the apartment she
is leaving, and employs a decorator to outfit the new one. To me, at
all events, such a mode of living would be unendurable. The charm of
getting home, as I see it, is the charm of getting back to what is
inextricably my own--to things familiar and long loved, to things
that belong to me alone and none other. I have lived in one house in
Baltimore for nearly forty-five years. It has changed in that time,
as I have--but somehow it still remains the same. No conceivable
decorator’s masterpiece could give me the same ease. It is as much a
part of me as my two hands. If I had to leave it I’d be as certainly
crippled as if I lost a leg.
I believe that this feeling for the hearth, for the immemorial lares
and penates, is infinitely stronger in Baltimore than in New York--that
it has better survived there, indeed, than in any other large city
of America--and that its persistence accounts for the superior charm
of the town. There are, of course, thousands of Baltimoreans in
flats--but I know of none to whom a flat seems more than a make-shift,
a substitute, a necessary and temporary evil. They are all planning to
get out, to find house-room in one of the new suburbs, to resume living
in a home. What they see about them is too painfully not theirs. The
New Yorker has simply lost that discontent. He is a vagabond. His
notions of the agreeable become those of a vaudeville actor. He takes
on the shallowness and unpleasantness of any other homeless man. He
is highly sophisticated, and inordinately trashy. The fact no doubt
explains the lack of charm that one finds in his town; the fact that
the normal man of Baltimore is almost his exact antithesis explains
the charm that is there. Human relations, in such a place, tend to
assume a solid permanence. A man’s circle of friends becomes a sort of
extension of his family circle. His contacts are with men and women who
are rooted as he is. They are not moving all the time, and so they are
not changing their friends all the time. Thus abiding relationships
tend to be built up, and when fortune brings unexpected changes, they
survive those changes.
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