Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
BIRTH CONTROL ENCOURAGES MARRIAGE. The advocates of Birth Control hold
that a scientific knowledge of contraception would speedily result in a
large increase of marriages, particularly among persons of limited
incomes. Persons who have not been able to accumulate the "little nest
egg" which prudent persons consider a requisite on the part of those
contemplating marriage and the responsibilities of rearing a family of
children, are in many cases caused to hesitate about contracting
marriage, and often relinquish the idea altogether. Many of these
persons are well adapted for marriage, being of the domestic temperament
and having the home ideal prominent in their mental makeup.
The increasing number of bachelors and unmarried women past thirty years
of age, who are in evidence in all large centers of population at the
present time, is undoubtedly due to a great extent to the fear on the
part of these men and women regarding the proper support of a family of
children. Many men and women feel that the man is able to earn enough to
support himself and wife comfortably, by the exercise of economy, but
that the said earnings are not sufficient to provide properly for a
family of children. Some would be willing to have one or two children,
born after the couple have well established themselves, but are
appalled at the thought of bringing into the world a practically
unlimited number of little children for whom they would not be able to
provide properly.
These people shrink at the idea of abortion, and doubt the efficacy of
the popular so-called contraceptive methods of which their friends tell
them, and they either defer the marriage until later in life, or else
give up the idea altogether as being impossible for them under the
existing circumstances. A scientific knowledge of the subject would give
to such persons--and there are many thousands of such--an assurance of
their ability to safely and properly control and regulate the size of
their families, and would lead to many a marriage which would otherwise
be out of the question.
If it is agreed that the marriage state is the one normal to the average
man and woman, and that marriages are in the interests of society--and
few would seek to dispute this--then it would seem that anything that
would tend to encourage marriage among the right kind of persons should
receive the encouragement of society and be fully protected by the laws
of society; and that the old prejudice against the subject, and the laws
which discourage the same, and place a penalty upon the dissemination of
scientific methods leading to the said result, are unworthy of civilized
society and modern thought.
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