Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Today the conditions have altogether altered, and even our own feelings
have altered. We no longer feel with the ancient Hebrew who bequeathed
his ideals, though not his practices, to Christendom, that to have as
many wives and concubines and as large a family as possible is both
natural and virtuous and in the best interests of religion. We realize,
moreover, that such claimed Divine Commands were the expression of the
prophets and rulers of the people to whom they were addressed, and in
accordance with the ideals concerning race-betterment which were held by
these self-constituted authorities.
To the educated men and women of today, it is seen that these ideals of
human-betterment (no longer imposed upon the people under the guise of
Divine Commands, but rather by an appeal to their reason and judgment)
are no longer based upon the sanctification of the impulse of the
moment, but rather involve restraint of the impulse of the moment as
taught by the lessons of foresight and regard for the future which the
race has received. We no longer believe that we are divinely ordered to
be reckless, or that God commands us to have children who, as we
ourselves know, are fatally condemned to disease or premature death.
Matters which we formerly believed to be regulated only by Providence,
are now seen to be properly regulated by the providence, prudence,
foresight, and self-restraint of men themselves. These characteristics
are those of moral men, and those persons who lack these characteristics
are condemned by our social order to be reckoned among the dregs of
mankind. Our social order is one in which the sphere of procreation
could not be reached or maintained by the systematic control of
offspring.
More and more is Religion perceived to be more than a mere matter of the
observance of certain ritual and ceremonies, or the belief in certain
dogmas. More and more is true religion seen to be vitally concerned and
bound up with the relations of man to man, and the welfare of society in
general. More and more is it being perceived that anything which is
decidedly anti-social, or opposed to the best interests of
human-betterment, is not truly "religious," no matter how sanctified by
tradition, or bound up with ritual and ceremonies it may be.
The spirit of modern Christianity is seen to consist of two fundamental
principles, viz.: (1) the love of God; and (2) the Golden Rule. The
conscientious Christian who uses head and heart in harmony and unison,
cannot avoid the conclusion that the avoidance of the bringing into the
world of offspring destined by social and economic conditions to
misery, poverty, and sin, is more in accordance with the true spirit of
Christianity than opposed to it--the ancient dogmas and traditions of
the Church to the contrary notwithstanding. Modern religion is based
upon Reason as well as upon Faith, and it is safe to predict the time
when Birth Control will not only be sanctioned by "religion," but also
encouraged by it.
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