Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Rev. Sylvanus Stall, the author of several widely-read works on the
subject of Sex, says of strict continence: "One theory is that the
reproductive function is not to be exercised except for the purpose of
procreation. * * * There are some married people, more numerous than
some suppose, who have adopted the idea of uniform continence, and who
call the reproductive nature into exercise for the purpose of
procreation only, and who assert that the maintenance of continence
secures not only the greater strength and better health, but greater
happiness also. * * * While the results of our investigations do not
enable us to assert that it is the true theory, we are yet prepared to
say that it is worthy of thoughtful consideration. If it is possible for
married people to maintain absolute continence for a period of six
months or a year, it must be conceded that it would be possible to
extend that time to a longer period. The maintenance of this theory
would require such a degree of self-control as is far beyond the
possession of the great mass of humanity. We fear, also, that there are
but few, even if they entered upon a life union with such thought and
intention, who would be willing to maintain their principles for any
considerable period. * * * The other theory, and that which many men
and women who are eminent for their learning and religious life hold to
be the correct theory, is that while no one has a right to enter upon
the marriage relation with the fixed purpose of evading the duty of
parenthood, yet that procreation is not the only high and holy purpose
which God has had in view in establishing the marriage relation, but
that the act of sexual congress may be indulged in between husband and
wife for the purpose of expressing their personal endearments, and for
quickening those affections and tender feelings which are calculated to
render home the place of blessing and good which God intended. * * * It
is held by those who advocate this theory, that while it would be
possible to restrict the exercise of the reproductive functions to the
single purpose of procreation, yet in the great majority of instances
the effort to live by that theory would generally result in marital
unhappiness. * * * Due regard is not only to be paid to the perpetuity
of the race, but to the well-being and perpetuity of the individual."
The advocates of continence, except for the purpose of procreation,
advance many arguments and evidence to justify their contention that
this is the only course justified by Nature and Morality. We need not
present this argument here, for it is outside the particular question
now under consideration. However, in all fairness and justice, there
should be presented here the general outline of their argument that
there is no rational basis for the widely accepted idea that abstinence
from sexual relations is in any way harmful or detrimental to the health
and physical well-being of the human race.
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