Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
the flow of either is liable to be arrested in a moment of sudden mental
action."
Parkhurst says: "The prostatic fluid, according to Robin, is secreted at
the moment of ejaculation. The remaining element of the spermatic
secretion is produced, under normal circumstances, only as required,
either for impregnation or for the maintenance of the affectional
function. The theory that the sperm is naturally secreted only as it is
required, brings it into harmony with other secretions. The tears, the
saliva, and the perspiration, are always required in small quantities,
and the secretion is continuous; but if required in great quantities,
the secretion becomes great almost instantly. The mother's milk is
chiefly secreted just as it is required for the infant, and when not
required the secretion entirely ceases; yet it recommences the moment
the birth of another child makes it necessary. * * * A man accustomed to
abstinence will not suffer from any accumulation of secretions, while a
man whose absorbing glands have never had occasion to take up the
secretions will be in trouble; just as a dairy cow which has not been
milked will be in trouble, though if running wild she would never have
any necessity for milking. * * * The objection that man needs physical
relief from a continuous secretion is answered by the admitted fact that
men not deficient in sexual vigor live for months, and probably for
years, in strict abstinence, and with no physical inconvenience such as
is often complained of by men who happen to be deprived of their
accustomed indulgence for a week or two at a time."
Dr. Nystrom, the eminent Swedish writer on the subject, however, utters
the following warning to those who would make hasty generalizations on
the subject: "In speaking of relative abstinence or regulation and
command of the sexual instinct, I warn against absolutism in this
regard, and especially against the generalizing of abstinence as
possible for everybody. Although abstinence during an entire lifetime
does not injure certain individuals, it cannot be endured by others for
some length of time without undesirable consequences. I therefore oppose
the principle of absolute continence as in the main false. It may
possibly be applied to a few deeply religious or philosophical persons,
but not to the majority of normal people, despite good resolutions and
habits. * * * We must consider the different bodily constitutions and
passions--why some people without difficulty, others with the greatest
difficulty, can master their feelings regarding sexual relations. * * *
May those who try to better humanity in sexual respects first give their
attention to the subject when well prepared with a rich experience and
deep study, for otherwise they cannot give advice which can be followed,
and their work should fail as being contrary to human nature."
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