Proverb Lore: Many sayings, wise or otherwise, on many subjects, gleaned from many sourcesHulme, F. Edward (Frederick Edward)
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Proverb Lore: Many sayings, wise or otherwise, on many subjects, gleaned from many sources
Hulme, F. Edward (Frederick Edward)
Proverbs -- History and criticism
The Power of the Tongue -- Speech and Silence -- Knowledge and
Wisdom not Interchangeable Terms -- Truth and Untruth --
Travellers' Tales -- Flattery -- Industry and Sloth -- Youth
-- Friends, True and False -- Riches and Poverty -- The Ladder
to Thrift -- The Influence of Womankind -- The Good Wife --
The Shrew -- The Testimony of Epitaphs -- The Grey Mare --
Home -- Hope -- Forethought -- Excuses -- Good and Ill Fortune
-- Retribution -- Detraction -- Pretension -- Self-interest --
Bribery and Corruption -- Custom and Habit -- The General
Conduct of Life -- The Weather -- The Moon made of Green
Cheese -- Conclusion
Speech, wise or otherwise, and silence, under the same limitations, have
supplied the material for countless wisdom-chips, the power of the
tongue in what it says and how it says it being recognised as of vital
importance, and this has been admitted at every period and under every
sky. It has been said that "More have repented speech than silence," and
the assertion has much experience in its favour. Though times arise when
prompt speech is needful, and cowardice and a poor expediency prevents
the words being uttered, it is, perhaps, more ordinarily the experience
that one unavailingly regrets having spoken, and would give much to be
able to recall the hasty and inconsiderate utterance.[194:A]
It has been truly said that he knows much who knows when to speak, but
that he knows yet more who knows when to be silent, and that the good
talker is known by what he says, and also by what he does not say. It
has been very happily declared that "Flow of words is not always flow of
wisdom," and that "Quality is ever better than quantity," so that "Words
should be delivered not by number but by weight."[195:A] Another very
true adage is that "Talking comes by nature, silence by understanding."
The Italians say: "Great eloquence, little conscience," and it is
certainly true that "Great talkers fire too fast to take good aim."
Speech has been declared to be the portraiture of the mind, so that as
the man talks to us he is quite unconsciously depicting himself. "A
close mouth catches no flies" says the old saw, and modest merit that
trusts to its deserving is likely enough to be supplanted by the boldly
importunate. Many would prefer to let these others do the impudent
begging, and would surrender the flies, but keep their self-respect.
Young tells us that
"Thoughts shut up want air,
And spoil like bales unopen'd to the sun"--
which is very true; while Shakespeare's advice is no less so:
"Have more than thou showest,
Speak less than thou knowest."
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