[Sidenote: Disastrous effects of adultery on adulteress and her
child.] Similar views as to the disastrous effects of adultery on
mother and child seem to be widespread among Bantu tribes. Thus among
the Awemba of Northern Rhodesia, when both mother and child die in
childbirth, great horror is expressed by all, who assert that the
woman must assuredly have committed adultery with many men to suffer
such a fate. They exhort her even with her last breath to name the
{104} adulterer; and whoever is mentioned by her is called the
“murderer” (_musoka_) and has afterwards to pay a heavy fine to the
injured husband. Similarly if the child is born dead and the mother
survives, the Awemba take it for granted that the woman has been
unfaithful to her husband, and they ask her to name the murderer of
her child, that is, the man whose guilty love has been the death of
the babe.[104.1] In like manner the Thonga, a Bantu tribe of South
Africa, about Delagoa Bay, are of opinion that if a woman’s travail
pangs are unduly prolonged or she fails to bring her offspring to the
birth, she must certainly have committed adultery, and they insist
upon her making a clean breast as the only means of ensuring her
delivery; should she suppress the name even of one of several lovers
with whom she may have gone astray, the child cannot be born. So
convinced are the women of the sufferings which adultery, if
unacknowledged, entails on the guilty mother in childbed, that a woman
who knows her child to be illegitimate will privately confess her sin
to the midwife before she is actually brought to bed, in the hope
thereby of alleviating and shortening her travail pangs.[104.2]
[Sidenote: Sympathetic relation between an adulterer and the injured
husband.] Further, the Thonga believe that adultery establishes a
physical relationship of mutual sympathy between the adulterer and the
injured husband such that the life of the one is in a manner bound up
with the life of the other; indeed this relationship is thought to
arise between any two men who have had sexual connexion with the same
woman. As a native put it to a missionary, “They have met together in
one life through the blood of that woman; they have drunk from the
same pool.” To express it otherwise, they have formed a blood covenant
with each other through the woman as intermediary. “This establishes
between them a most curious mutual dependence: should one of them be
ill, the other must not visit him; the patient might die. If he runs
a thorn into his foot, the other must not help him to extract it. It
is taboo. The wound would not heal. If he dies, his rival must not
assist at his mourning or he would die {105} himself.” Hence if a man
has committed adultery, as sometimes happens, with one of his father’s
younger wives, and the father dies, his undutiful son may not take the
part which would otherwise fall to him in the funeral rites; indeed
should he attempt to attend the burial, his relations would drive him
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