=The Passing of the Doll.= The modern woman, active, self reliant,
honest and healthy, will force out of existence a type which has lent
much picturesque charm to social gatherings and to pictorial art, the
doll type of woman, prettiness incarnate, of rose leaf charm, unfit for
any biological function except the mild lovemaking, not so much of a
husband, as of a lover. Tuberculous poets and composers of the Musset
and Chopin type, affected pictorial artists like Helleu, will deplore
her disappearance. Man, put at his ease by the modern woman, who does
not require constant protection, mental and physical, will find the
doll "too much trouble."
Only the very stupid and unmanly man will cultivate her for she will
not throw his physical shortcomings into too striking relief and it
will not require any mental exertion on his part to converse with her.
=The Passing of the Flirt.= The flirt is doomed. The flirt is a
rather unintelligent woman with a mild prostitution complex. She has
been trained from infancy to consider a woman's career as successful
when the woman fastens to herself a breadwinner whom she holds by his
physical desire of her body. Having never acquired any market value
outside of the sexual field, she must constantly test her powers and
reassure herself by leading all sorts and conditions of men, for whom
she may never experience even the slightest fancy, into consequential
overt acts revealing that she has awakened their eroticism.
Anyone will do, provided she reads in his eyes the verdict: I am still
attractive.
The terror of growing old is not so overwhelming to the modern woman
who has acquired a non-sexual market value. She tests herself thru
positive accomplishment, leadership, principally, and does not need to
keep her eye constantly on the sex thermometer.
=Modesty, Old and New.= Knowledge which dispels physical ghosts
and a positive self-valuation based on accomplishment will cause the
modern woman to discard the old fashioned modesty which was supposed to
be her greatest attraction, and which husbands, while being obviously
attracted by immodest women, encouraged in their wives as a bulwark
against the advances of other men.
Havelock Ellis in his "Impressions and Comments" contrasts cleverly
thru two striking illustrations the old-fashioned type, worshipping
at the altar of false modesty, and the modern type, who is no longer
ashamed of her body or her sex:
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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