=The Nightmare of Abortion.= And, if in spite of all, an
"accident" happens, what is the mental state of the woman who calls
at the "unethical" practitioner's office? While such an operation
practiced with a modicum of skill may be harmless, the dread fear of
possible consequences is quite able to kill the woman.
Fear may bring forth any morbid symptom, from an embolus to violent
suppuration.
Fear, on the other hand, on which the advocates of suppressive measures
rely, hardly ever leads anyone to continence or prevents any one from
resorting to abortion.
Legal obstacles to contraceptive education attain only one result. They
make married love risky and unpleasant, kill many a young woman and, in
the case of neurotic mothers, allow one morbid generation to bring into
this world another morbid generation.
=The Plight of the Neurotic Woman.= Many neurotic women imagine that
they hate their husbands and rationalise that hatred by bringing up
many absurd, imaginary charges against them. To them their husbands
symbolise pregnancy.
Many neurotic mothers, who did not wish to bear another child, often
compensate for their lack of real love for the unwelcome child by an
absurd, exaggerated tenderness which spoils the child or develops
morbid fears (the fear they might hurt or kill the child, fear as to
the child's health or welfare) which wreck the child's mental balance
and not infrequently land the mother in a sanatarium.
A neurotic woman I treated was obsessed by the fear that she might
some day kill her husband and children. Several years ago she had had
an abortion performed by a midwife whom she did not trust. Septic
poisoning set in and she hovered between life and death for several
months. A great fear of death drove her into reading many religious
books. She came to the conclusion that she had committed a murder.
But her husband, having impregnated her, was more guilty than she,
for he was the cause of it all. Hence, her insane logic added, he and
she would be better off dead than leading a sinful life. She should,
therefore, kill him and kill herself. Furthermore, her children being
the offspring of murderers, must be themselves tainted with criminal
tendencies and should also be saved from a life of crime. When she was
brought to me she had attempted to kill the entire family by turning
on the gas faucets all over the house about two o'clock in the morning.
The lawmakers who prevented that woman from having an operation
performed legally, (which would remove the fear of crime) safely, by a
reputable practitioner, (which would remove the fear of consequences),
openly, (which would remove the fear of social ostracism), would
have been responsible for the death of several people, had she not
accidentally awakened her husband by upsetting a chair on her way back
to her bed.
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