=The Will-to-Be-the-First.= In the overemphasis placed by certain
men upon virginity in the woman, and in the anxiety shown by certain
husbands at the thought that their wife may have had sexual relations
with another man previous to her marriage, we see the operation of the
neurotic trait which Adler has called "the will-to-be-the-first" and
which manifests itself, not only in the love life, but in all of life's
situations.
The neurotic of that type, obsessed with a feeling of inferiority is
tortured by the thought that he may not have been the first to caress
his wife. Analysis proves that in early childhood, he had a tendency
(observable in certain breeds of dogs) to try to outrun every waggon,
horse, train, etc.; that in later life he always tries to walk ahead
when in company and hastens his steps whenever anyone threatens to pass
him on the street. That type is given to hero worship, as he likes to
identify himself with his favorite hero, Cæsar, Napoleon, etc. States
of anxiety develop whenever his preeminence in society or business is
threatened.
=Telegony.= In the search for virginity there may also be in the male
an unconscious "intuition" of some scientific facts. The phenomenon of
telegony, explained by Dr. Jules Goldschmidt, of Paris, in the Medical
Review of Reviews for April 1921, would, if confirmed by careful
observations, throw a new light on the meaning of virginity.
The first male, Goldsmith states, leaves an indelible impress on the
female he possesses. Goldsmith believes that sperm plays a twofold part
in the female organism that receives it. It not only fecundates the egg
but modifies the blood of the female. He cannot believe that Nature
would waste millions of spermatozoa in order that one of them should
reach the egg. The millions of spermatozoa which are not needed for
purposes of fecundation are absorbed, he thinks, by the mucous tissues
of the woman's genitals and make her gradually more and more like her
mate. To this factor Goldschmidt attributes the likeness of mates who
have lived together many years.
"When we reflect," he writes, "on the deep impress produced by the
action of a single spermatic cell, we at once ask what will be
the fate of the myriads of spermatozoids entering at the moment of
fecundation, and later on into the female organism. Again we have to
insist on the fact that nature works with excessive profusion, and that
to secure success its means of action are multiple. Everywhere in the
living world male generative cells are brought forth in an overwhelming
abundance.
"Their multiplicity guarantees at least the possibility of meeting the
rather far-off ovulum, just as out of the multitude of male bees only
one is chosen to impregnate the queen.
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