This is, of course, an abortive attempt, for habit is a more potent
protector against temptation than veils. The races which live
practically naked are not more erotic than the fully clothed, civilised
races or the Arabs who not only cover their entire body and heads but
conceal even the shape of their bodies in the loose folds of their
ample garments. A husband, no longer erotically aroused by his wife's
naked body, may be attracted violently by the partly draped body of
another woman.
=Suggestive Draperies.= One of the results of the policy of
body-concealment has been to transform certain draperies into sexual
symbols of great aphrodisiac power. Certain garments lend to the human
body an appeal which it might not have if fully exposed. In other
words, the obstacles which are meant to hold back erotism may be used
neurotically as a morbid expression of erotism.
At the present day, however, that form of protection against temptation
serves its purpose to some extent and cannot be discarded until mankind
has been reeducated. Custom and the law uphold official modesty. The
mere fact, however, that modesty has to be enforced legally is one of
the best arguments against the sentimental, unscientific view that
modesty is an "innate," "natural" feeling of "delicacy" based upon some
"higher," "spiritual" values, etc.
Modern, official modesty is merely a compromise with sexual reality.
It has been, like all inhibitory feelings, greatly overestimated and
forced upon the weaker sex by egotistical men to prevent a display of
their female's charms, likely to attract other women-hunters. Weak
males with a sense of inferiority have called modesty the typically
feminine virtue.
=Excessive Modesty=, in men as well as in women, is an abnormal
phenomenon, a mask for unconscious lewdness and obscenity. It is a
neurotic means of protection against uncontrollable desires, or at
times an expression of one's "sour grapes" attitude to others.
It is always the shapeless and unattractive woman who is the most
vociferous champion of highneck gowns and long skirts. A sense of
bodily inferiority obsesses the woman who does not allow any caresses
unless the room is darkened. Her modesty yields rapidly, however, to
the praise of her attractions which she hears from the mouth of her
lover.
=Immodest Modesty.= A woman took her daughter to a specialist's
office for an examination. The girl, asked to strip, complied at once
with the doctor's request and stood naked before him without any
display of shame.
When they left, the mother made the very unwise remark that her
daughter must have lacked modesty entirely to have stood the ordeal
without any embarrassment. In this case, it was the mother who lacked
"true modesty" and the daughter whose mind was "pure." The girl knew
she was in the presence of a physician, but to the more highly sexed
mother, the physician was above everything a "man."
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