"Following this primary stage, a transformation takes place whose
mechanism we know but whose motive forces we have not yet grasped. The
love of the mother cannot continue to develop consciously so that it
merges into repression. The boy represses his love for the mother by
putting himself into her place, by identifying himself with her, and
by taking his own person as a model thru the similarity of which he is
guided in the selection of his love object. He thus becomes homosexual;
as a matter of fact, he returns to the stage of autoerotism, for the
boys whom the growing adult now loves are only substitute persons or
revivals of his own childish person, whom he loves in the same way as
his mother loved him. We say that he finds his love object on the road
to narcism, after the Greek legend of Narcissus to whom nothing was
more pleasing than his own mirrored image.
"Deeper psychological discussions justify the assertion that the person
who becomes homosexual in this manner remains fixed in his unconscious
on the memory of his mother. By repressing the love for his mother, he
conserves the same in his consciousness and henceforth remains faithful
to her. When as a lover he seems to pursue boys, he really thus runs
away from women who could cause him to be faithless to his mother."
=Active and Passive Types.= Ferenczi draws a distinction between the
active and the passive types of homosexuals, that is, between the man
who, in love acts like a woman, in a submissive way, and the man who
loves men as he would women, in an agressive way.
"A man who in his love relations with men feels himself to be a woman,"
he writes, "is inverted in respect to his own ego (homo-erotism thru
subject inversion, or, more shortly, subject-homo-erotism). He feels
himself to be a woman, and this not only in the love relationship but
in all relations of life.
"It is quite otherwise with the true active homosexual. He feels
himself a man in every respect, is as a rule very energetic and active,
and there in nothing effeminate to be discovered in his bodily or
mental organisation. The object of his inclination alone is exchanged,
so that one might call him homo-erotic thru exchange of the love
object, or more shortly, object-homo-erotic.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account