"This duality in the child's psyche, the forerunner of a split in his
consciousness, can have varying results in later years. The individual
will oscillate between the male and the female poles with a constant
striving toward the unification of those two tendencies.
"The masculine component prevents a complete assumption of the
feminine rôle, the feminine component is an obstacle to complete
virility. Hence a compromise: feminine behavior thru masculine means: a
timid submissive male, masculine masochism, homosexuality. Or masculine
behavior thru feminine devices."
=Above and Below.= A series of comparisons has established itself
in the human mind, owing to the enslavement of the female by the male,
starting with the antithesis: male-female: good and bad, right and
left, HIGH, and LOW, ABOVE and BELOW.
In every female neurotic, according to Adler, there is a refusal to be
a female, that is, to be BELOW (socially as well as sexually).
The female who is inferior in looks or intelligence or position and
cannot either compensate for that inferiority by displaying superiority
in some other way (artistic or scientific accomplishment), or reconcile
herself to her inferior position, wishes consciously and unconsciously
to be a man. Consciously she makes herself as masculine as possible.
Unconsciously, she dreams herself into a male personality, physically,
mentally, socially AND sexually. Her wish to be ABOVE makes her play a
man's part in love as well as in the world's life.
=A Way Out.= Homosexualism is, like every neurotic symptom, a way
out of life's difficulties.
A male homosexual I treated associated the idea of woman with "trouble,
sickness, expense, lack of freedom." "Every" woman was to him a "leg
puller," a "gold digger," a liar, insatiable in her demands, spying on
her husband, constantly suffering from "female trouble."
This man had never been married and his only sexual experiences, which
were of the most ephemeral type, had been gained in the few hours of
his life which he spent with a woman much older than himself, a cabaret
singer and a prostitute. Yet, he was convinced that "women are too much
trouble."
An unconsciously homosexual male who is married, and quite potent and
who consulted me after a serious "breakdown," had a dream in which he
saw himself at the top of a mountain in Africa (flight from reality and
his present environment). Six large negroes (powerful male sexuality)
carried away his wife's coffin, (flight from the sexual partner). A
long line of negroes then walked past him and he felt that as long as
he would be on friendly terms with them, he would not want for anything
(line of least effort).
Female homosexuals who had never had any normal heterosexual
experience ranted along the same line of thought: "A husband is too
much trouble." "The idea of submitting to a brute of a man," "I don't
wish to be a slave to a man," etc.
All this voices what Adler terms the "masculine protest."
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