Psychology and Pedagogy of AngerRichardson, Roy Franklin
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Psychology and Pedagogy of Anger
Richardson, Roy Franklin
Anger
The feeling of friendliness toward the offender may follow anger which
has been successfully expressed. Spinoza was right when he said, “An act
of offense may indirectly give origin to love.” It is frequently
observed in the after-period of anger, “I felt more friendly toward him
after my emotion had disappeared.” In fact an unusual friendliness with
a desire to bestow favors was often observed. We like a man better after
we have been angry at him in a successful manner. The emotional attitude
is entirely changed toward an opponent who has been overcome, if he
allows the victory. It is the unreasoning person who never becomes aware
of his defeat, against whom hate follows anger.
Feelings of unpleasant irritation usually follow anger when social or
other conditions prevent adequate expression. These feelings seem to be
the medium by which the situation exciting anger is repeatedly recalled.
The emotion which appears from the imagined situation usually does not
leave such intense unpleasant feelings, as the subject tends to attain
in his deliberate moments, to some degree, an inner victory over his
opponent, or to find an adequate excuse for his behavior. Either of
these reactions may be successful enough to exclude irritable feelings
in the after-period. Irritation after controlled anger is the medium for
the so-called transfer of the emotion from an offending to an
unoffending object, which is so often observed. In the after-period of
irritation, it is a rather common observation of the subjects, “I was
looking for something or somebody at whom I could get angry.” “I felt I
wanted to hurt somebody.” In fact irritation in the after-period becomes
an essentially affective element in a situation from which may arise a
new anger of a different type. The first anger may have arisen from a
fore-period of humiliation, while the latter is from that of irritation.
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