Ragged homes and how to mend themBayly, Mrs. (Mary)
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Ragged homes and how to mend them
Bayly, Mrs. (Mary)
Charities -- Great Britain; Poor -- England -- London
Another great advantage which we now enjoy is, that, within the last
few months, a new clergyman has come to the parish, who, by his
occasional presence among us, and the kind interest that he takes in
all connected with the society, is a source of much encouragement to
us, as well as valuable assistance.
And now having given you an account of what may be called the
building up of these meetings, I will answer your next inquiry—‘How
do you manage to interest the mothers?’ I must begin what I have to
say on this subject by stating that I believe there is no society in
existence where there is so little difficulty in creating an
interest, as in a society of mothers. In fact, you have not to
create, but to take advantage of what already exists. A woman who
will come to such a meeting at all, will be sure not to be perfectly
indifferent to the improvement of her children; although it is
lamentable to see how habitual selfishness will sometimes almost
obliterate even this first principle of nature. But, believe me,
there are few cases, very few, where, under right influence, this
feeling cannot be restored, and brought into living action, and
always with great benefit to the general character.
We commence by reading a passage of Scripture, and with prayer. In
the prayer, besides mentioning the peculiar difficulties and
sufferings incident to a poor mother’s life, any cases occurring
amongst them particularly demanding sympathy are mentioned, in order
to be made the subject of our united supplications. I believe that
this has done much to give a kindly interest in one another; for the
instances we have had of their sympathy for each other in times of
distress have been truly beautiful.
When they have all settled to their work, and the money affairs are
over, I generally make a few inquiries as to what occurred at the
past meeting; whether any plan then recommended has failed or
succeeded. For instance, a better domestic observance of the Sabbath
was the subject for two evenings. This led, among many other things,
to a conversation on the best way of arranging about the Sunday
dinner; so that it really might be the best in the week, and yet
leave as little work as possible connected with it to be done on that
day.
Experiments in cooking, and, indeed, anything belonging to their
pre-eminently practical life, they seem much to enjoy, and they are
eager to relate, at the next meeting, either success or failure.
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