Ragged homes and how to mend themBayly, Mrs. (Mary)
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Ragged homes and how to mend them
Bayly, Mrs. (Mary)
Charities -- Great Britain; Poor -- England -- London
The Mrs A— mentioned in a former chapter was there: she had become a most
zealous champion of mine. I cannot help laughing now at the recollection
of her tall, commanding figure, as she sat that evening bolt upright in
her chair, looking round with an air of defiance, as much as to say, “Let
me see any one dare to make a noise.” If a chair creaked, or scissors
dropped, her head was round in an instant. A little, unfortunate boy,
about four years of age, who came with his mother because he could not be
left at home, was singled out as her special victim. He could not move,
however quietly, without her threatening face and finger being directed
towards him. She seemed to exercise some mysterious spell over him, as
he scarcely withdrew his eyes from her; and at last, when a halfpenny
rolled off his lap under the table, he instantly followed it, and
remained out of sight, as if unable to face her again after _that_. The
energy of her character communicated itself to her needle. Presently
this noisy needle stopped. I did not notice it at first, thinking that,
perhaps, she was watching some fresh victim; but, as she continued idle,
I looked up from my book, and said, “Are you waiting for anything, Mrs
A—, that I can give you?”
“Why, ma’am, you see I forgot to bring the sleeves out of the box, when I
fetched my work, and I can’t go on any longer without ’em; but I have got
such thick shoes on, I thought I should make such a racket in fetching
’em, that I should upset you altogether, and I had rather not finish my
work than do that.”
I knew what a self-denial it must be to her not to drive on to the end of
her work, when she had intended to do so; and I appreciated her kind
consideration accordingly.
It has been quaintly said, that “there are more points in which a Queen
resembles her washer woman than in which she does not.” Without dwelling
upon these extremes, nothing is more certain than that whenever a lady
goes amongst the poor, hoping to benefit them by her influence, she must
be impressed much more by the points of resemblance that exist between
them, than by the points of difference. Mothers’ Societies have a
peculiar advantage in this respect. The sufferings and joys attendant on
the mother’s life are common to all, and enable us to realise, more than
any other circumstance or relation in life, that we are all children of
one great family. The best lessons we can find for our poor sisters will
be always those which we learn from our own hearts—from our own actual
every-day experience. Sometimes I have repeated a portion of Scripture
with them, which I had previously read with my own children; telling them
what remarks I made upon it, and what the children said about it. This,
besides interesting and amusing them more than a common explanation, has
a better effect than saying, “You should teach your children so and so.”
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