Clergy -- England -- Biography; Stoughton, John, 1807-1897
To return to my Kensington flock. In the year 1857, one Sunday night,
after I had retired to rest, I heard a loud ringing at the door-bell, and
immediately rose. On opening the window, there stood a carriage; and the
coachman, as soon as by gaslight he saw my face, cried out, “Oh, sir, my
mistress is dead!” His mistress was Mrs. Jacomb, residing with her
husband and family at Notting Hill. They had all been at Divine worship
that morning in their usual health. The carriage had been sent to take
me back to the mourners. I immediately rose and went. On reaching the
house I witnessed a scene of domestic distress such as I never witnessed
before. My deceased friend had in the morning worshipped with us, in her
usual delicate health, and, as I learned, in more than her usual
cheerfulness. She was preparing for evening service, when she was
suddenly seized with illness, and in a short time expired. The husband
and family were in deep distress, but they had a blessed knowledge of Him
who brought life and immortality to light. She was a woman rich in
spiritual sympathy, and had been no ordinary friend to me and mine, in
our early married life. We had a large family, and, though favoured
above many, had our domestic trials. How often I thought of what Paul
said of “Phœbe, our sister”: “She has been a succourer of many, and of
myself also.” I never knew any one who had more tender sympathy in
trouble than Mrs. Jacomb, or was more swift in expressing it. Her
husband was worthy of her, and her children “rise up to call her
blessed.” Those who survive are cherished friends. He was of an old
Puritan stock, descendant of Dr. Jacomb, a renowned ejected clergyman
after the Commonwealth; and the family genealogy is rich in noted names
and memories.
In this chapter I cannot refrain from recording my own domestic sorrows.
In 1853 a sweet child had died—little Catherine, born shortly after we
left Windsor; and in 1858 another, more advanced in life, a boy named
Arnold, full of energy and promise, was taken from us by our Heavenly
Father. His illness was brief; but beforehand my dear wife had been
anxious for his spiritual welfare, and her conversations were followed by
the Divine blessing. His joyous, winning ways had won the hearts of
visitors, and his death widely affected my congregation, awakening
sympathy to a degree which inspired my liveliest gratitude. Our friend
Joshua Harrison preached a funeral sermon for the dear boy, full of
pathos and power.
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