Religious Reality: A Book for MenRawlinson, A. E. J. (Alfred Edward John)
Religion
Religious Reality: A Book for Men
Rawlinson, A. E. J. (Alfred Edward John)
Theology, Doctrinal -- Popular works
Other sins there are which should not be so much as named among
Christian men-those, namely, in which men with men work that which is
unseemly, and burn with lust one towards another. It is necessary to
refer to these, because their prevalence is said to be increasing. A
considerable proportion of men are temperamentally liable to be
sexually attracted by members of their own sex; and passionate
friendships, in which there is an element which is in the last
analysis sexual, are not uncommon both between boys and youths at the
age of early manhood, and between men of mature age and adolescents.
The true character of these relationships is not always in their
initial stages obvious, even to those concerned. As a guiding
principle it may be laid down that a friendship between members of the
same sex begins to enter upon dangerous ground whenever an element of
jealousy betrays itself, when there is a desire habitually to
monopolize the other's company to the exclusion of third persons, or
when the life and interests of the one appear to be disproportionately
wrapped up in the concerns and doings of the other. Friendships of
this character are always selfish and may all too easily become
impure. It is the business of a Christian man to be on his guard and
to love his male friends not as a woman is loved and not in a spirit
of selfish monopoly, but with the pure and clean and essentially
unselfish affection of Christian manhood.
A word may be said, lastly, with regard to prurient and polluted talk
and unclean stories. Against these a Christian man will do well firmly
and resolutely to set his face. Such things defile the mind. They are
injurious both to him that hears and to him that speaks, in that they
tend to engender a mental atmosphere in which the suggestions of
actual vice are likely to meet with an enfeebled power of resistance.
Of course it is possible to be too tragical on the subject of
"language," and to exaggerate the harm done by "smoking-room" stories.
But whatever is definitely unclean is definitely evil, and should be
both avoided and discouraged. To assume, however, a pious demeanour
and to appear to be shocked is a fatal method of protest. Christians
have no business to be shocked, nor are they meant to be prigs. There
are other forms of social pressure which are more effective. It is,
moreover, sometimes possible to combine moral reprobation with a sense
of humour.
CHAPTER IV
THE WORKS OF THE DEVIL
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