Religious Reality: A Book for MenRawlinson, A. E. J. (Alfred Edward John)
Religion
Religious Reality: A Book for Men
Rawlinson, A. E. J. (Alfred Edward John)
Theology, Doctrinal -- Popular works
For the union of the sexes in marriage is according to the mind of the
Christian Church an essentially pure and holy thing. It is a sacrament
of the fusion of two personalities, whereby they are at once
individually and mutually enriched, and at the same time mystically
and spiritually knit together in such a way as to become in the sight
of GOD indissolubly one: the unity of husband and wife being
comparable, according to a famous saying of S. Paul, to the unity
which exists between Christ and His Church. Now, although, from this
point of view, the significance of married life is to a great extent
impoverished and frustrated, if intercourse is so regulated as to
render the marriage childless not in fact merely, but in intention,
yet it does not follow that procreation must be directly in view on
every individual occasion, since the mystical value of intercourse as
a spiritual sacrament of love may still exist in independence of such
intention. It is nevertheless, surely, clear that a Christian man and
his wife are morally precluded from coming together except with a deep
sense of the sacredness of what they do and of its intimate connexion
with the mysteries of life and birth, and a corresponding readiness,
in the event of conception taking place, to accept the ensuing
responsibility for the child as a sacred trust from GOD, "the Father
from whom all fatherhood in heaven and on earth is named." With the
use of "preventives" and other devices, which degrade into a mere
means of carnal satisfaction an act which is meant to bear a deeply
spiritual and religious meaning, the Christian interpretation of
marriage seems plainly and obviously incompatible.
A few words may be added with regard to the upbringing and education
of children. Here, again, there has been a reaction--which upon the
whole is good--from the unduly rigorous disciplinary methods of the
past. It may be doubted, however, whether the reaction has not in some
cases been carried too far. Children ought to be controlled and
disciplined by their parents, and no expenditure of care and thought
and tact is too great to devote to the rightful training of their
characters. But experience seems to show that parents sometimes fail
to recognize that their children grow up. It is important that in
proportion as they grow towards maturity of character and independence
of personality the strictness of parental discipline should be
gradually relaxed. At a certain stage the real influence of parents
upon their children will depend upon their refusal to assert direct
authority. Not a few of the minor tragedies of home life arise from
the ill-judged action of parents who treat as children sons and
daughters who are virtually grown up.
The problem of the religious education of children cannot here be
discussed in detail, but three or four leading principles may be
suggested.
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