No amount of treatment can reclaim an evil heart if the treatment is
administered without love. As children at school we knew with our young
natural instincts the teacher who loved us and the teacher who despised
us—the one awoke feelings of love and kindness, the other hatred and
revenge. No heart is so pure that it may not be defiled and hardened
by cruelty, hatred and force, and none so defiled that it may not be
touched and changed by gentleness and love. Unless this philosophy of
life is true the whole teaching of the world has been a delusion and a
snare. Unless love and kindness tends to love, then hatred and violence
and force should be substituted and taught as the cardinal virtues of
human life. The mistake and evil of society is in assuming that love
is the rule of life, and at the same time that large classes of people
are entirely outside its pale. No parent ever teaches his child any
other philosophy than that of love. Even to quarrelsome playmates they
are taught not to return blows and harsh language, but to meet force
with kindness and with love. The parent who did not depend on love to
influence and mold the character of the child rather than force would be
regarded not as a real parent but a brute. Force is worse than useless
in developing the conduct of the child. It is true that by means of
force the little child may be awed by superior brute power, but he gives
way only under protest, and the violence that he suppresses in his hand
or tongue finds refuge in his heart. Violent acts are not evil—they
are a manifestation of evil. Good conduct is not goodness. It is but a
manifestation of goodness. Evil and goodness can only be conditions of
the inmost life, and human conduct, while it generally reflects this
inmost life, may be so controlled as not to manifest the real soul that
makes the man.
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