Every child needs development, needs training to fit him to live in
peace and right relations with his fellow man. Every intelligent and
right-thinking person knows that this development must be through love,
not through violence and force. The parent who would teach his child to
be kind to animals, not to ruthlessly kill and maim, would not teach
this gentleness with a club. The intelligent parent would not use a
whip to teach a child not to beat a dog. The child is not made into the
good citizen, the righteous man, by pointing out that certain conduct
will lead to punishment, to the jail or the gallows. The beneficence of
fear was once considered a prime necessity in the rearing of the child,
and this theory peopled the earth with monsters and the air with spooks
ready to reach down and take the helpless child when he wandered from the
straight and narrow path; but this method of rearing children does not
appeal to the judgment and humanity of to-day. The conduct of children
can only be reached for good by pointing to the evil results of hatred,
of inharmony, of force, by appealing to the higher and nobler sentiments
which, if once reached, are ever present, influencing and controlling
life. The code of hatred, of violence and force, too, is a negative code.
The child is given a list of the things he must not do, exactly as the
man is furnished a list of the acts forbidden by the state. At the best,
when the limits of this list are reached and the forbidden things are
left undone, nothing more is expected or demanded. But no code is long
enough to make up the myriad acts of life. Kindness or unkindness can
result in a thousand ways in every human relationship. If the child or
the man observes the written code through fear, the unwritten moral code,
infinitely longer and more delicate, will be broken in its almost every
line. But if the child or the man is taught his right relations to the
world and feels the love and sympathy due his fellow man, he has no need
of written codes; his acts, so far as those of mortals can be, will be
consistent with the life and happiness of his fellow man. And this not
through fear, but because he bears the highest attitude toward life.
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