Ritual and belief : $b Studies in the history of religionHartland, Edwin Sidney
Religion
Ritual and belief : $b Studies in the history of religion
Hartland, Edwin Sidney
Ethnopsychology; Magic; Religion; Rites and ceremonies
wait until the second beer-drinking, six months or a year later. At
this second ceremony dancing takes place on the first night, and beer
is drunk the next day. Before sunset on the first day the widow is
again shaven, and the mother of the deceased informs her that she is
now free to marry again. That night “she has to sleep with a man paid
by her {222} relations.” He is not her permanent husband; his services
are merely required as a preliminary to her marriage. According to the
account from which I am quoting it would appear that she may marry
after mourning two or three months, but not without the same previous
ritual coition, else “her second husband would die, should she have
committed adultery.” A widower, on the other hand, “mourns five or six
months and is then given medicine, after which he may marry again, and
without which, should he marry, his new wife would die.”[222.1] There
are some difficulties here. It seems clear that until the mourning is
over the widows cannot marry again, and the length of mourning is
decided by the relatives of the deceased; it is closed with the
beer-drinking. When it is over, the widows select their husbands from
among the kindred of the deceased; he who marries the chief wife is
the heir. A widow cannot marry outside this limited circle, unless
she, or her new husband, be prepared to repay her bride-price, and
often more. Customs doubtless differ, but this is the usual course. It
is curious too that the second husband of a widow should die, if he
married her without the previous coition by another man, only if she
had committed adultery, whereas the woman marrying a widower will die
in any case if he have not had medicine. It is probable that there has
been some misunderstanding of the informants and that the second
husband runs the risk of death in any case by wedding a widow who has
not undergone the regular preliminary.[222.2] The probability is
confirmed by the practice of the Yaos, a neighbouring tribe, among
whom the second husband {223} pays a man to pass a night with the
widow before he takes her.[223.1] A further example may be given from
a wholly different cultural area. Among the Kamtchadals no one would
be willing to marry a widow “unless her sins have been previously
taken away by the highest degree of familiarity granted to anyone who
wishes to render her this service.” The writer to whom we are indebted
for the information reported in the eighteenth century that the
natives imagined that this expiation might cause the expiator to die
like the defunct husband, so that the poor women would remain widows
but for the assistance of the Russian soldiers, who were not afraid of
exposing themselves to a danger so equivocal.[223.2]
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