Now I was brought up in this manner, and though my uncle intended me
the greatest kindness by his system of indulgence, it was, in point
of fact, the most mischievous that could have been devised. I grew up
headstrong and passionate, and though my temper was naturally good, it
seemed rather to be injured than benefited by the manner in which I
was treated. I could not bear anything that thwarted my wishes. I was
very easily offended, and became selfish, unreasonable, and unjust, in
proportion as I was petted and flattered. Thus it happened in my case,
as it always happens, that having my own way made me what is called a
spoiled child; and accordingly, I became disagreeable to myself and
almost everybody else.
I am particular in telling all this for two reasons:--first, to show to
parents, that if they do not wish their children to be miserable and
disagreeable--if they do not wish to lay the foundation of selfishness,
caprice, and injustice in the hearts of their offspring--let them
govern their children, make them mind, make them do right. If parents
do not wish to have their children ruined, let them avoid a system of
indulgence. My other reason for giving these details is, that I hope to
persuade children to do their duty cheerfully, because this is really
the best, the happiest way. It is not only the best for the future,
but the present; not only best in view of manhood, but for childhood
itself.
I am now going to relate some circumstances, which will illustrate some
things I have been saying. It will show not only how much my temper had
been injured, but into what evils a thoughtless and headstrong youth
will rush, if given up to his own guidance.
On a certain day in January, it had been agreed between Bill Keeler
and myself, that we would proceed to the mountain for the purpose
of hunting. My uncle had bought me a new fowling-piece, and on this
occasion I was to take it with me. I looked forward to the day with
great impatience, and when at last it arrived, Bill and myself were up
by day-break, ready to depart. The winter had thus far been remarkably
mild and open. There was as yet no snow on the ground. But when we were
about to leave the house on our expedition, my uncle, who had been out
of doors, told us that it was going to snow, and we had better not
venture among the mountains. I was immediately angry at this advice,
and told my uncle that I would go, whether he thought it best or not.
With more than ordinary spirit, he replied that I should not go! This
resistance set me in a blaze. I seized my gun, uttered some words of
defiance, and rushed out of the house. Finding me thus determined
and incorrigible, my yielding uncle told Bill, who stood still all
the time, seeming to know how it would turn out, to go with me, and
take good care of me. Accordingly, he soon joined me, and we went on
together, laughing heartily at the scene which had just passed.
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