Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the GypsiesCuttriss, Frank
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Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the Gypsies
Cuttriss, Frank
Romanies -- England
Now, all join heartily in the closing hymn, and there can be no doubt
as to their enjoyment of it, for they sing it over again and again,
so bringing to a close a gathering that would probably be regarded
by an outsider as a strange meeting of strange people, and yet there
is withal a fascination and charm about the whole affair, a sense
of something to be thankful for that one fails to experience at a
fashionable gathering.
[Illustration: “NO PLACE LIKE HOME.”]
The well-known one-time hatred of all churches by the Romanies, and
their dislike to adopt any custom of the gorgio would almost suffice to
account for the gypsies having their own marriage ceremony, but when it
is borne in mind that gypsies were—ought I not to say, are?—looked
at askance by church-goers, and are obviously regarded with more scorn
than sympathy, and that the gypsy knows this, it will be evident that
the mission worker has need of infinite tact, and must be able to grasp
and appreciate the traditional beliefs and inherited distrust of the
gypsy, as well as sympathize in the difficulties and temptations which
confront and beset him, if he hopes to find eventually that his work
has not been in vain.
As the most direct route to a gypsy parent’s heart is usually by
way of the child, the work of the mission in giving the children,
whenever possible, an elementary school education and at the same time
instilling correct ideas of right and wrong, and teaching them simple
truths, must in the nature of things eventually influence for good the
lives of both children and parents; meantime the self-denying workers
obey the injunction—not to be weary in well-doing, trusting to the
assurance that—in due season they will reap if they faint not.
Many a Romany wedding is still celebrated in the old, old way; but
there are increasing numbers each year who are married at some
recognized place of worship, thanks to the efforts of the mission
workers, who point out to them that although they may after their
own ceremony remain faithful to each other through life, as is almost
invariably the case, it would be better to be married at a place of
worship, or otherwise in accordance with the law of this country.
To see a gypsy really and thoroughly uncomfortable one must behold him
on his wedding day, should he elect—as occasionally he does—to wear,
for once, a high collar. Accustomed to the kerchief around his neck,
the wearing of a starched collar must, to him, feel much like being
put in irons, and although he survives the ordeal, it must remain an
agonizing memory to him ever after.
As the work of the Church Army Mission gives but a side-light upon
Romany life, I must not dwell on it beyond adding that their workers
go with the gypsies, not merely during the fruit-picking or the
hop-picking, but are always among them whenever there appears to be the
most pressing need or favourable opportunity for their services, and
therein lies the secret of any success they may have had.
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