Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the GypsiesCuttriss, Frank
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Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the Gypsies
Cuttriss, Frank
Romanies -- England
Around us, about the fair ground, weird lights now glimmered, moved
and disappeared, appeared again, wandered and went out, fires here and
there flared up for a minute, died down, flickered and left a glow
which dimly illuminated in an eerie fashion caravan, framework, and the
jumble of preparation for the morrow’s business.
Now and again some one threaded his way in the uncertain light, a man
stumbled over a peg in the shadow near me and relieved his feelings in
the customary manner; one of the party around our dying fire remarked
that “old Noah had got ’em again,” another, who seemed to have a
philosophy and a code of ethics of her own, sagely observed:—
“Swear words was sent for our use, and what I says is,—a man or woman
as swears and don’t mean nothin’ by it, will be forgiven, but not a
person as tells a lie.”
Here, it may be well to point out, that by gypsies it is often
considered permissible, if not praiseworthy, to tell lies of all sorts
and sizes to a gorgio, but a gypsy who tells a “whopper” to his own
folk is “an out-and-out bad ’un.”
At one period in our history it was considered to be right and proper
for all gentlemen to curse and swear, and to make use of every
description of curious or picturesquely worded blasphemy; to-day, the
prevalent conception of what constitutes a gentleman taboos profanity
in any guise, but an incident I recollect which is relevant to the
subject must certainly not go unrecorded:—
An old woman told a friend of mine that she _did_ like to hear her son
swear, as he “always swore so hearty it did her real good.” Probably,
every one will not be able to view the matter in the same light.
On that night before the fair I renewed acquaintance with a number of
gypsies whom I had last seen in the strawberry country, and much was
talked of that related to happenings since that date and our mutual
arrangements for meeting again in the hop gardens, a relation of which
would be wearisome to the general reader, but the following snatches of
conversation and jottings from my notebook of this date are not devoid
of interest as they cast a sort of side-light on the character of the
Romanies:—
... The words “dear” and “dearie” are frequently used,—“take that dear
little bird in, it’s getting cold” (referring to a caged gold-finch,
hanging outside caravan).
... “Yes, it’s dreadful to think of the dear little children wanting
food” (referring to German atrocities in Belgium).
... “You go and witch yourself,” said a girl to an older relative,
during a brief display of temper; the woman to whom this was addressed,
turned to me and observed:—
“Ain’t that a dreadful thing to say to anybody, eh, Rye? She’s a devil,
she is.”
... Upon seeing a photograph of girls boxing, a woman remarked:—
“No, I don’t like to see women boxing, it’s too much like men. Women
should be women, and men should be men, I think.”
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