Ross's Adventures of the first settlers on the Oregon or Columbia River, 1810-1813Ross, Alexander
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Ross's Adventures of the first settlers on the Oregon or Columbia River, 1810-1813
Ross, Alexander
Mississippi River Valley -- Description and travel; United States -- Description and travel; West (U.S.) -- Description and travel
When a marriage alliance is thus entered into between parties on behalf
of their infant children, reciprocal presents exchanged immediately
between them serve as a seal to the marriage contract. These {300}
presents are occasionally repeated afterwards; but not by both parties,
as in the first instance. The friends of the young woman cease to give,
but are always ready to receive what the friends of the young man may
from time to time choose to bestow, until the parties come of age. What
these presents consist of is immaterial, and depends on the means of the
parties. Sometimes horses, or a horse, or a dressed skin, or a few
trinkets of but little value; but as soon as the young man attains the
age of fourteen or fifteen years, and the young woman that of eleven or
twelve, he then goes and pays his addresses to her in person; which is
done in this way:—After the people are all in bed, the young man goes to
the lodge or wigwam of his intended bride, enters it in the dark, makes
a small fire, and sits by it till he is observed by some of the inmates.
The whisper then goes round. If he be welcome, the girl’s mother gets
up, and without speaking to the young man herself, she awakens her
daughter, who sits up with him by the fire; but the matron immediately
retires to rest, leaving the young couple by themselves. During the
_tête-à-tête_, no person in the lodge ever interrupts them. The
interview is not long: the young man then departs, and the girl retires
to rest again. These visits are repeated some three or four times, or
more; and if the suitor be welcomed on every occasion, all goes on well.
He then goes in the day time, pretty sure of success, to his intended
father-in-law, accompanied by some {301} near relative, and bringing
with him the purchase-money; that is, horses, robes, skins, and
trinkets, more or less, according to the rank of the parties. On arrival
they sit down opposite to the door of the lodge. If invited in, all is
well; then the pipe of peace is smoked; one side of the lodge is put in
order; a new mat is spread out, and the young man seated thereon. The
young woman is then brought by her father and mother, each taking her by
an arm, and placed near her intended husband. They are thenceforth
considered lawfully married. This done, the pipe of peace is again
produced; and during the ceremony of smoking, the father-in-law and
young man’s relative expatiate on the worth of their respective
families; after which the parties regale, the bridegroom’s companion
returns home, and the whole business is ended.
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