Rowlandson's OxfordGibbs, A. Hamilton (Arthur Hamilton)
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Rowlandson's Oxford
Gibbs, A. Hamilton (Arthur Hamilton)
University of Oxford
In the same number of _The Student_ there appeared a letter from Bishop
Atterbury to his son Obadiah, who was up at the House. How the editor
procured it is not recorded, nor is it easy to see why he included it in
his columns. It cannot have been vastly entertaining to a list of
subscribers who devoted most of their time to ale and coffee-houses, or in
dallying with Amaryllis in the shade of Merton Wall. It is greatly
interesting to-day, however, as an example of what an eighteenth-century
parent indicted to his son. The contrast between this letter and the
replies one receives in 1911 in answer to one’s brief epistles written,
mostly, solely in order to “touch the dad down for a bit” is not
unstriking.
“DEAR OBBY,--I thank you for your letter, because there are manifest
signs in it of your endeavouring to excel yourself, and in consequence
to please me. You have succeeded in both respects, and will always
succeed, if you think it worth your while to consider what you write
and to whom, and let nothing, tho’ of a trifling nature, pass through
your pen negligently. Get but the way of writing correctly and justly,
time and use will teach you to write readily afterwards. Not but that
too much care may give a stiffness to your style, which ought in all
letters by all means to be avoided. The turn of them should always be
natural and easy, for they are an image of private and familiar
conversation. I mention this with respect to the four or five first
lines of yours, which have an air of poetry, and do therefore
naturally resolve themselves into blank verses. I send you your letter
again, that you may make the same observation. But you took the hint
of that thought from a poem, and it is no wonder therefore, that you
heightened the phrase a little when you were expressing it. The rest
is as it should be; and particularly there is an air of duty and
sincerity, that if it comes from your heart, is the most acceptable
present you can make me. With these qualities an incorrect letter
would please me, and without them the finest thoughts and language
would make no lasting impression upon me. The great Being says, you
know--my son, give me thy heart--implying that without it all other
gifts signify nothing. Let me conjure you therefore never to say
anything, either in a letter or common conversation, that you do not
think, but always to let your mind and your words go together on the
most slight and trivial occasions. Shelter not the least degree of
insincerity under the notion of a compliment, which, as far as it
deserves to be practis’d by a man of probity, is only the most civil
and obliging way of saying what you really mean; and whoever employs
it otherwise, throws away truth for breeding; I need not tell you how
little his character gets by such an exchange. I say not this as if I
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