Sanitary and Social Lectures and EssaysKingsley, Charles
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Sanitary and Social Lectures and Essays
Kingsley, Charles
Essays; Social problems
And yet—and yet—is not the highest heroism that which is free even from
the approbation of our fellowmen, even from the approbation of the best
and wisest? The heroism which is known only to our Father who seeth in
secret? The Godlike deeds alone in the lonely chamber? The Godlike
lives lived in obscurity?—a heroism rare among us men, who live perforce
in the glare and noise of the outer world: more common among women; women
of whom the world never hears; who, if the world discovered them, would
only draw the veil more closely over their faces and their hearts, and
entreat to be left alone with God. True, they cannot always hide. They
must not always hide; or their fellow-creatures would lose the golden
lesson. But, nevertheless, it is of the essence of the perfect and
womanly heroism, in which, as in all spiritual forces the woman
transcends the man, that it would hide if it could.
And it was a pleasant thought to me, when I glanced lately at the golden
deeds of women in Miss Yonge’s book—it was a pleasant thought to me, that
I could say to myself—Ah! yes. These heroines are known, and their fame
flies through the mouths of men. But if so, how many thousands of
heroines there must have been, how many thousands there may be now, of
whom we shall never know. But still they are there. They sow in secret
the seed of which we pluck the flower and eat the fruit, and know not
that we pass the sower daily in the street; perhaps some humble,
ill-dressed woman, earning painfully her own small sustenance. She who
nurses a bedridden mother, instead of sending her to the workhouse. She
who spends her heart and her money on a drunken father, a reckless
brother, on the orphans of a kinsman or a friend. She who—But why go on
with the long list of great little heroisms, with which a clergyman at
least comes in contact daily—and it is one of the most ennobling
privileges of a clergyman’s high calling that he does come in contact
with them—why go on, I say, save to commemorate one more form of great
little heroism—the commonest, and yet the least remembered of all—namely,
the heroism of an average mother? Ah, when I think of that last broad
fact, I gather hope again for poor humanity; and this dark world looks
bright, this diseased world looks wholesome to me once more—because,
whatever else it is or is not full of, it is at least full of mothers.
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