Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
3. HYGIENIC ATTENTION.--Youths at this period should receive special
private attention. They should be taught the purpose of the sexual organs
and the proper hygienic laws that govern them, and they should also be
taught to rise in the morning and not to lie in bed after waking up,
because it is largely owing to this habit that the secret vice is
contracted. One of the common causes of premature excitement in many boys
is a tight foreskin. It may cause much evil and ought always to be
remedied. Ill-fitting garments often cause much irritation in children and
produce unnatural passions. It is best to have boys sleep in separate beds
and not have them sleep together if it can be avoided. {407}
4. PROPER INFLUENCE.--Every boy and girl should be carefully trained to
look with disgust on everything that is indecent in word or action. Let
them be taught a sense of shame in doing shameful things, and teach them
that modesty is honorable, and that immodesty is indecent and dishonorable.
Careful training at the proper age may save many a boy or girl from ruin.
5. SEXUAL PASSIONS.--The sexual passions may be a fire from heaven, or a
subtle flame from hell. It depends upon the government and proper control.
The noblest and most unselfish emotions take their arise in the passion of
sex. Its sweet influence, its elevating ties, its vibrations and harmony,
all combine to make up the noble and courageous traits of man.
6. WHEN PASSIONS BEGIN.--It is thought by some that passions begin at the
age of puberty, but the passions may be produced as early as five or ten
years. All depends upon the training or the want of it. Self-abuse is not
an uncommon evil at the age of eight or ten. A company of bad boys often
teach an innocent child that which will develop his ruin. A boy may feel a
sense of pleasure at eight and produce a slight discharge, but not of
semen. Thus it is seen that parents may by neglect do their child the
greatest injury.
7. FALSE MODESTY.--Let there be no false modesty on part of the parents.
Give the child the necessary advice and instructions as soon as necessary.
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