Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
6. Large numbers of youths pass from an exhausted boyhood into the
weakness, intermittent fevers, and consumption, which are said to carry off
so many. If the deaths were attributed primarily to loss of strength
occasioned by self-pollution, it would be much nearer the truth. It is
monstrous to suppose that a boy who comes from healthy parents should
decline and die. Without a shade of doubt the chief cause of decay and
death amongst youths and young men, is to be traced to this baneful habit.
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7. It is a well-known fact that any man who desires to excel and retain his
excellence as an accurate shot, an oarsman, a pedestrian, a pugilist, a
first-class cricketer, bicyclist, student, artist, or literary man, must
abstain from self-pollution and fornication. Thousands of school boys and
students lose their positions in the class, and are plucked at the time of
their examination by reason of failure of memory, through lack of nerve and
vital force, caused mainly by draining the physical frame of the seed which
is the vigor of the life.
8. It is only true to say that thousands of young men in the early stages
of a licentious career would rather lose a right hand than have their
mothers or sisters know what manner of men they are. From the side of the
mothers and sisters it may also be affirmed that, were they aware of the
real character of those brothers and sons, they would wish that they had
never been born.
9. Let it be remembered that sexual desire is not in itself dishonorable or
sinful, any more than hunger, thirst, or any other lawful and natural
desire is. It is the gratification by unlawful means of this appetite which
renders it so corrupting and iniquitous.
10. Leisure means the opportunity to commit sin. Unclean pictures are
sought after and feasted upon, paragraphs relating to cases of divorce and
seduction are eagerly read, papers and books of an immoral character and
tendency greedily devoured, low and disgusting conversation indulged in and
repeated.
11. The practical and manly counsel to every youth and young man is, entire
abstinence from indulgence of the sexual faculty until such time as the
marriage relationship is entered upon. Neither is there, nor can there be,
any exception to this rule.
12. No man can affirm that self-denial ever injured him. On the contrary,
self-restraint has been liberty, strength and blessing. Beware of the
deceitful streams of temporary gratification, whose eddying current drifts
towards license, shame, disease and death. Remember, how quickly moral
power declines, how rapidly the edge of the fatal maelstrom is reached, how
near the vortex, how terrible the penalty, how fearful the sentence of
everlasting punishment.
13. Be a young man of principle, honor, and preserve your powers. How can
you look an innocent girl in the face when you are degrading your manhood
with the vilest practice? Keep your mind and life pure, and nobility will
be your crown.
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