Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
3. In Christian countries the laws of marriage have greatly added to the
health of man. Marriage in barbarous countries, where little or no marriage
ceremonies are required, benefits man but little. There can be no true
domestic blessedness without loyalty and love for the select and married
companion. All the licentiousness and lust of a libertine, whether
civilized or uncivilized, bring him only unrest and premature decay.
4. A man, however, may be married and not mated, and consequently reap
trouble and unhappiness. A young couple should first carefully learn each
other by making the courtship a matter of business, and sufficiently long
that the disposition and temper of each may be thoroughly exposed and
understood.
5. First see that there is love; secondly, that there is adaptation;
thirdly, see that there are no physical defects; and if these conditions
are properly considered, cupid will go with you.
6. The happiest place on all earth is home. A loving wife and lovely
children are jewels without price, as Payne says:
"'Mid pleasures and palaces though we may roam,
Be it ever so humble, there's no place like home."
7. Reciprocated love produces a general exhilaration of the system. The
elasticity of the muscles is increased, the circulation is quickened, and
every bodily function is stimulated to renewed activity by a happy
marriage.
8. The consummation desired by all who experience this affection, is the
union of souls in a true marriage. Whatever of beauty or romance there may
have been in the lover's dream, is enhanced and spiritualized in the
intimate communion of married life. The crown of wifehood and maternity is
purer, more divine than that of the maiden. Passion is lost--emotions
predominate.
[Illustration: AN ALGERIAN BRIDE.]
9. TOO EARLY MARRIAGES.--Too early marriage is always bad for the female.
If a young girl marries, her system is weakened and a full development of
her body is prevented, and the dangers of confinement are considerably
increased.
10. Boys who marry young derive but little enjoyment from the connubial
state. They are liable to excesses and thereby lose much of the vitality
and power of strength and physical endurance.
11. LONG LIFE.--Statistics show that married men live longer than
bachelors. Child-bearing for women is conducive to longevity.
{137} 12. COMPLEXION.--Marriage purifies the complexion, removes blotches
from the skin, invigorates the body, fills up the tones of the voice, gives
elasticity and firmness to the step, and brings health and contentment to
old age.
13. TEMPTATIONS REMOVED.--Marriage sanctifies a home, while adultery and
libertinism produce unrest, distrust and misery. It must be remembered that
a married man can practice the most absolute continence and enjoy a far
better state of health than the licentious man. The comforts of
companionship develop purity and give rest to the soul.
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