Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
8. THE BEGINNING OF LICENTIOUSNESS.--Man it seldom drives from society. Do
what he may, woman, aye, virtuous and even pious woman rarely excludes him
from her list of visitors. But where is the point of propriety?--immoral
transgression should exclude either sex from respectable society. Is it
that one false step which now constitutes the boundary between virtue and
vice? Or rather, the discovery of that false step? Certainly not! but it is
all that leads to, and precedes and induces it. It is this courting without
marrying. This is the beginning of licentiousness, as well as its main,
procuring cause, and therefore infinitely worse than its consummation
merely.
9. SEARING THE SOCIAL AFFECTIONS.--He has seared his social affections so
deeply, so thoroughly, so effectually, that when, at last, he wishes to
marry, he is incapable of loving. He marries, but is necessarily
cold-hearted towards his wife, which of course renders her wretched, if not
jealous, and reverses the faculties of both towards each other; making both
most miserable for life. This induces contention and mutual recrimination,
if not unfaithfulness, and imbitters the marriage relations through life;
and well it may.
10. UNHAPPY MARRIAGES.--This very cause, besides inducing most of that
unblushing public and private prostitution already alluded to, renders a
large proportion of the marriages of the present day unhappy. Good people
mourn over the result, but do not once dream of its cause. They even pray
for moral reform, yet do the very things that increase the evil. {152}
[Illustration: AFTER THE ENGAGEMENT.]
11. WEEPING OVER HER FALLEN SON.--Do you see yonder godly mother, weeping
over her fallen son, and remonstrating with him in tones of a mother's
tenderness and importunity? That very mother prevented that very son
marrying the girl he dearly loved, because she was poor, and this
interruption of his love was the direct and procuring cause of his ruin;
for, if she had allowed him to marry this beloved one, he never would have
thought of giving his "strength unto strange women." True, the mother
ruined her son ignorantly, but none the less effectually.
12. SEDUCTION AND RUIN.--That son next courts another virtuous fair one,
engages her affections, and ruins her, or else leaves her broken-hearted,
so that she is the more easily ruined by others, and thus prepares the way
for her becoming an inmate of a house "whose steps take hold on hell." His
heart is now indifferent, he is ready for anything.
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