Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
8. Those with little hair or beard should marry those whose hair is
naturally abundant; still those who once had plenty, but who have lost it,
may marry those who are either bald or have but little; for in this, as in
all other cases, all depends on what one is by nature, little on present
states.
9. Those whose motive-temperament decidedly predominates, who are bony,
only moderately fleshy, quite prominent-featured, Roman-nosed and muscular,
should not marry those similarly formed.
10. Small, nervous men must not marry little, nervous or sanguine women,
lest both they and their children have quite too much of the hot-headed and
impulsive, and die suddenly.
[Illustration: Light, Life, Health and Beauty.]
11. Two very beautiful persons rarely do or should marry; nor two extra
homely. The fact is a little singular that very handsome women, who of
course can have their pick, rarely marry good-looking men, but generally
give preference to those who are homely; because that {173} exquisiteness
in which beauty originates naturally blends with that power which
accompanies huge noses and disproportionate features.
12. Rapid movers, speakers, laughers, etc., should marry those who are calm
and deliberate, and impulsives those who are stoical; while those who are
medium may marry those who are either or neither, as they prefer.
13. Noses indicate characters by indicating the organisms and temperaments.
Accordingly, those noses especially marked either way should marry those
having opposite nasal characteristics. Roman noses are adapted to those
which turn up, and pug noses to those turning down; while straight noses
may marry either.
14. Men who love to command must be especially careful not to marry
imperious, women's-rights woman; while those who willingly "obey order;"
need just such. Some men require a wife who shall take their part; yet all
who do not need strong-willed women, should be careful how they marry them.
15. A sensible woman should not marry an obstinate but injudicious,
unintelligent man; because she cannot long endure to see and help him
blindly follow his poor, but spurn her good, plans.
16. The reserved or secretive should marry the frank. A cunning man cannot
endure the least artifice in a wife. Those who are non-committal must marry
those who are demonstrative; else, however much they may love, neither will
feel sure as to the other's affections, and each will distrust the other,
while their children will be deceitful.
17. A timid woman should never marry a hesitating man, lest, like
frightened children, each keep perpetually re-alarming the other by
imaginary fears.
18. An industrious, thrifty, hard-working man should marry a woman
tolerably saving and industrious. As the "almighty dollar" is now the great
motor-wheel of humanity, and that to which most husbands devote their
entire lives, to delve alone is uphill work.
[Illustration]
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Marriage Securities.
[Illustration: WE MUST PART.]
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