Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And MarriageJefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
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Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners: A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage
Jefferis, B. G. (Benjamin Grant)
Marriage; Medicine, Popular; Sexual ethics
2. GOOD WIVES AND MOTHERS.--The good wives and mothers are the women who
believe in the sisterhood of women as well as in the brotherhood of men.
The highest exponent of this type seeks to make her home something more
than an abode where children are fed, clothed and taught the catechism. The
State has taken her children into politics by making their education a
function of politicians. The good wife and homemaker says to her children,
"Where thou goest, I will go." She puts off her own inclinations to ease
and selfishness. She studies the men who propose to educate her children;
she exhorts mothers to sit beside fathers on the school-board; she will
even herself accept such thankless office in the interests of the helpless
youth of the schools who need a mother's as well as a father's and a
teacher's care in this field of politics.
3. A BUSY WOMAN.--As to whether a busy woman, that is, a woman who labors
for mankind in the world outside her home,--whether such an one can also be
a good housekeeper, and care for her children, and make a real "Home, Sweet
Home!" with all the comforts by way of variation, why! I am ready, as the
result of years practical experience as a busy woman, to assert that women
of affairs can also be women of true domestic tastes and habits.
4. BRAINY ENOUGH.--What kind of women make the best wives? The woman who is
brainy enough to be a companion, wise enough to be a counsellor, skilled
enough in the domestic virtues to be a good housekeeper, and loving enough
to guide in true paths the children with whom the home may be blessed.
5. FOUND THE RIGHT HUSBAND.--The best wife is the woman who has found the
right husband, a husband who understands her. A man will have the best wife
when he rates that wife as queen among women. Of all women she should
always be to him the dearest. This sort of man will not only praise the
dishes made by his wife, but will actually eat them.
[Illustration: PUNISHMENT OF WIFE BEATERS IN NEW ENGLAND IN THE EARLY
DAYS.]
6. BANK ACCOUNT.--He will allow his life-companion a bank account, and will
exact no itemized bill at the end of the month. Above all, he will pay the
Easter bonnet bill without a word, never bring a friend to dinner without
first telephoning home,--short, he will comprehend that the {180} woman who
makes the best wife is the woman whom, by his indulgence of her ways and
whims, he makes the best wife. So after all, good husbands have the most to
do with making good wives.
7. BEST HOME MAKER.--A woman to be the best home maker needs to be devoid
of intensive "nerves." She must be neat and systematic, but not too neat,
lest she destroy the comfort she endeavors to create. She must be
distinctly amiable, while firm. She should have no "career," or desire for
a career, if she would fill to perfection the home sphere. She must be
affectionate, sympathetic and patient, and fully appreciative of the worth
and dignity of her sphere.
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