Seeking Fortune in AmericaGrey, F. W. (Frederick William)
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Seeking Fortune in America
Grey, F. W. (Frederick William)
Canada -- Description and travel; Mexico -- Description and travel; United States -- Description and travel
another, finally tossing two or three of them who could not get out of
his way, but without serious consequences. Most Mexicans of the lower
classes are would-be bull-fighters, and the great game amongst the
Mexican children is “bull-fighting”; one boy represents the bull and the
others the matadores, picadores, &c., and when the bull pokes one of the
others in the ribs he is supposed to be out. An American lady here had a
very cross Jersey bull in a corral. Some lads from sixteen to eighteen
years were baiting him, but, as they were not experts, he killed three
of them before they decided to leave him alone.
Mexicans in some ways are very polite and look upon Americans as boors;
and truly a great many of them are so, especially the tourists, whom I
have seen going into the churches here with their cameras, when mass was
being said, and other things equally outrageous. The Mexican takes off
his hat to his gentlemen friends as well as to the ladies; he shakes
hands with everybody (whether known to him or not) when entering or
leaving an office, and does not put on his hat till he leaves the
building; he will generally give you the inside of the side-walk if he
meets you on the street (always to a lady). I have seen two of them
arguing for quite a while on meeting as to who was to give the other the
inside. All this to his men acquaintances; on the other hand, he will
stare in the rudest way at any pretty woman he may meet in the street or
in a street-car, and I have often been tempted to punch their heads. He
will stand on the street-corner with a knot of friends taking up the
whole side-walk and making everybody who passes walk round them in the
street. Their ideas of politeness are so contradictory that I have never
been quite able to make them out. When they have a row it is considered
quite gentlemanly to beat your opponent over the head and shoulders with
your cane, but to strike him with your fist is a deadly insult. The
following are a few of the main rules of Mexican etiquette, for the
benefit of those who might visit this country: Ladies do not attend
funerals. Children kiss the hands of their parents. The hostess is
served first at a Mexican table. The bridegroom purchases his bride’s
trousseau. Women friends kiss on both cheeks when greeting or taking
leave. Gentlemen bow first when passing lady acquaintances in the
street. The sofa is the seat of honour, and a guest waits to be invited
to occupy it. Men and women in the same social circles call each other
by their first names. When a Mexican speaks to you of his home he refers
to it as “your house.” When you move into a new locality, it is your
duty to make the first neighbourhood calls. When friends pass each other
in the street without stopping they say _adios_ (good-bye). Young ladies
do not receive calls from young men, and are not escorted to
entertainments by them. Daily inquiry is made for a sick friend, and
cards are left, or the name written in a book, with the porter.
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