Seeking Fortune in AmericaGrey, F. W. (Frederick William)
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Seeking Fortune in America
Grey, F. W. (Frederick William)
Canada -- Description and travel; Mexico -- Description and travel; United States -- Description and travel
Every winter Mexico is filled with American tramps who come to escape
the cold up north, and they are a perfect pest at times. The Mexican
police will never touch them unless some American or Englishman makes a
complaint, in which case they run them out of town. Seven years ago we
had such a bad lot here that the colony made complaint, and the police
cleaned them up. Two of the most impudent, who returned, I had the
pleasure later of seeing do some honest work on the city streets. In
Mexico City the Saxon colony has a committee whose business it is to
investigate the case of every tramp who arrives; if he is a good man in
hard luck he is helped; if, on the other hand, he is a professional
tramp, the police are at once notified, and he has to move out.
One of the things that strike a visitor to this country is the method of
courtship. A Mexican girl of good family is never seen on the street
with a man till she is married to him. When a young man wishes to court
a girl, he walks up and down daily before the windows of her house. If
she reciprocates, she comes to the window after a decent interval, the
length of which is according to how highly she values herself, and
smiles on him. As he gets bolder he comes nearer and nearer, till
finally they get on speaking terms. All this may have taken some weeks.
When matters have progressed far enough for the couple to arrive at an
understanding, he makes a call on the family, and if they approve of him
he is invited to call again. After this he calls as frequently as he
can; the girl is present at these state calls, but it is not considered
etiquette for him to speak to her directly till they are officially
engaged. He must converse with the other members of the family so that
they can size him up. Imagine what intellectual conversation a man would
“get off” under the inspection of the whole family, and what endurance
the family must have to stand it night after night. As soon as he has
stayed the length of time that etiquette demands (or as long as the
family can stand him), he retires to the street, she comes to her
window, and they talk nonsense through the bars for the rest of the
evening. It is amusing to take a walk through the residential district
from eight till ten P.M. and see the hundreds of young fellows hanging
on the bars courting their lady-loves. But it is still more amusing when
the lady happens to live on the second storey and he has to shout all
his pretty speeches up to her! In most Mexican houses the first floor is
one abode and the second floor a separate one, with different entrances
and owned by different people. I often wondered what they would do when
they built five and six storey flats, till I went to Puebla and saw
small telephones in use, which the lady let down to her Romeo. In the
case of the idle rich this form of courting goes on all through the day,
the young fellow only going home for his meals.
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