Let us now consider the complaints of parents. It must be admitted that
the parents of young children, particularly their mothers, and
especially these latter when they are the wives of workingmen with
good-sized families, regard the school rather as a convenience for
getting rid of the children during a certain period of the day than
anything else. They are not to be blamed for this. They have obeyed the
imperative mandate of nature in having families, with no very adequate
conception of what they were doing; they find themselves burdened with
responsibilities often greatly beyond their capacity. They have all they
can do, sometimes more than they can do, to manage the financial end of
things, to see to their children's material wants and to get through
the work of a house; very often they are themselves deficient in even
the elementary knowledge of the schools; they feel that their children
need to know a great deal that they have never known, but they are
utterly without the ability to say whether what they learn is useful and
important or not. With the helplessness of ignorance towards wisdom,
they receive the system provided by the State on trust, presuming it is
good; and with the pardonable relief of busy and overburdened people,
they look at the clock as school hour approaches, and breathe a sigh of
relief when the last child is out of the house. They would be shocked at
the idea that they regard their children as nuisances; they would
vigorously defend themselves by saying that they feel that the children
are in better hands than their own, safe and well treated. But before
long even these ignorant ones observe that their children have learned a
number of things which are not good. They have mixed with a crowd of
others, and somewhere among them they have learned bad language, bad
ideas, and bad habits. These are complaints which may be heard from
intelligent, educated, and conservative parents also,--parents who may
be presumed to be satisfied with the spirit and general purpose of the
knowledge imparted in the class-room. Also the children suffer in health
through their schools; and later on, when the cramming and crowding of
their brains goes on in earnest, as it does in the higher grades, and
particularly the High Schools, Oh then springs up a terrible crop of
headache, nervous prostration, hysterics, over-delicacy, anaemia,
heart-palpitation (especially among the girls), and a harvest of other
physical disorders which were very probably planted back in the primary
departments, and fostered in the higher rooms. The students are so
overtrained that they often "become good for nothing in the house," the
parents say, and too late the mothers discover that they themselves
become servants to the whimsical little ladies and gentlemen they have
raised up, who are more interested in text-books than in practical
household matters.
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