Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and PerseveranceSmiles, Samuel
Philosophy
Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and Perseverance
Smiles, Samuel
Conduct of life
It has been said, and truly, that it is the defeat that tries the general
more than the victory. Washington lost more battles than he gained; but
he succeeded in the end. The Romans, in their most victorious campaigns,
almost invariably began with defeats. Moreau used to be compared by his
companions to a drum, which nobody hears of except it be beaten.
Wellington’s military genius was perfected by encounter with difficulties
of apparently the most overwhelming character, but which only served to
nerve his resolution, and bring out more prominently his great qualities
as a man and a general. So the skilful mariner obtains his best
experience amidst storms and tempests, which train him to self-reliance,
courage, and the highest discipline; and we probably own to rough seas
and wintry nights the best training of our race of British seamen, who
are, certainly, not surpassed by any in the world.
Necessity may be a hard schoolmistress, but she is generally found the
best. Though the ordeal of adversity is one from which we naturally
shrink, yet, when it comes, we must bravely and manfully encounter it.
Burns says truly,
“Though losses and crosses
Be lessons right severe,
There’s wit there, you’ll get there,
You’ll find no other where.”
“Sweet indeed are the uses of adversity.” They reveal to us our powers,
and call forth our energies. If there be real worth in the character,
like sweet herbs, it will give forth its finest fragrance when pressed.
“Crosses,” says the old proverb, “are the ladders that lead to heaven.”
“What is even poverty itself,” asks Richter, “that a man should murmur
under it? It is but as the pain of piercing a maiden’s ear, and you hang
precious jewels in the wound.” In the experience of life it is found
that the wholesome discipline of adversity in strong natures usually
carries with it a self-preserving influence. Many are found capable of
bravely bearing up under privations, and cheerfully encountering
obstructions, who are afterwards found unable to withstand the more
dangerous influences of prosperity. It is only a weak man whom the wind
deprives of his cloak: a man of average strength is more in danger of
losing it when assailed by the beams of a too genial sun. Thus it often
needs a higher discipline and a stronger character to bear up under good
fortune than under adverse. Some generous natures kindle and warm with
prosperity, but there are many on whom wealth has no such influence.
Base hearts it only hardens, making those who were mean and servile, mean
and proud. But while prosperity is apt to harden the heart to pride,
adversity in a man of resolution will serve to ripen it into fortitude.
To use the words of Burke, “Difficulty is a severe instructor, set over
us by the supreme ordinance of a parental guardian and instructor, who
knows us better than we know ourselves, as He loves us better too. He
that wrestles with us strengthens our nerves, and sharpens our skill: our
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