Senescence, the Last Half of LifeHall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Science
Senescence, the Last Half of Life
Hall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Geriatrics
Responses here differed very widely but certain common traits appear.
Those who grow deaf are often condemned to a progressive solitude
and this affliction has a pathos of its own. The friends we knew in
youth and college are scattered and most of them, and perhaps most
members of our own family, are dead, so that associates of our own
age are generally very few. But besides this the old often develop
idiosyncrasies highly distasteful to others and we find complaints
of the stupidity or querulousness of other old people. Despite the
fact that we have occasional instances of intimate friendships in the
latest decades of life, the herd instinct that prompts each to flock
with those of near his or her own years is less insistent, while with
happily married pairs even love seems to take on the character of
friendship. There is, indeed, no doubt that the gregarious instinct
tends to wane, and as men advance in years they tend to withdraw from
clubs and associations, not only because of infirmities but because
increased individuation is itself isolative. On the other hand, I think
we detect, not only in these returns but in life, a tendency to prefer
associates of the next generation, that is, those of such an age that
they might have been our own children. Some old men especially state
that they prefer the society of men of middle life and it has often
been thought that young teachers are best for young and older teachers
for older children and that the young have a certain attraction for
those near the age limits of their parents. A few of the very old
like children, but often with reservations or best at a distance, and
are prone to be annoyed by their noise or too great familiarity. It
is pretty clear that age does incline to youth and perhaps becomes
dependent on it for a kind of vicarious rejuvenation. Old professors
often feel in a peculiarly close rapport with those of student years
but this is partly due to habit. The old sometimes take, with peculiar
interest, to pets and not infrequently have strong likes and dislikes,
which they can only explain on the basis of congeniality or antipathy.
There can be no question that old people to-day are just as fond
of acting as mentors for the young as they were in ancient Greece,
although now it takes the very different form of a propensity to give
advice and warnings. But our civilization has not yet found effective
ways of making even god-fathers and -mothers really sponsors or
assistant parents, although the teaching instinct is closely allied to
the parental and is more or less developed in all. It is the testimony
of those familiar with old people’s homes that their inmates do not
tend to fraternize and although crony friendships are not infrequent,
there is no analogy to “mashes” or “crushes.” Indeed, pessimists have
often intimated that no one could really love very old people and so
far as this is true we could hardly expect them to love even each other
in return.
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