Senescence, the Last Half of LifeHall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Science
Senescence, the Last Half of Life
Hall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Geriatrics
The old are particularly prone to develop peculiarities which, if
they do not unconsciously alienate those nearest and perhaps dearest
to them, are real handicaps to their devotion. Of this the old are
rarely aware, and if attention is called to them they minimize their
importance. These might be listed and weighed like their analogues in
the erotic field. The roster of them on the negative side would be
long. There are faults in table manners, modes of eating and drinking,
using table utensils from the napkin on, etc. Mastication may be noisy
or otherwise subtly disagreeable, or there is slobbering, clumsiness,
or neglect of common conventionalities once observed. The toilet may
be neglected, the attire soiled or spotted or imperfectly put on, and
so a look-over needed before we go out. We do things or make noises
in the presence of others that once we only permitted ourselves when
alone and there is a new indifference to personal appearance. The
voice is impaired in volume, richness of inflection, and articulation;
our face or form are no longer æsthetic objects; we mislay things
and invoke those about us to help find them; and are tediously slow
in mind and body. If, in addition to all this, we become pryingly
overcurious, fault-finding, exact, and forgetful, we give our friends
more to put up with than we realize, and the best of them would be
shocked if they became conscious of how much they repress in their
psychic attitude toward, if not in their treatment of us. On all such
matters we should make frequent self-surveys. On the other hand, if
we cultivate not only order and control but, above all, the poise and
repose of those seeking the Great Peace, striving always to do, be, and
say only our best things, we may make ourselves not only respected but
loved in a new way, so that we shall be turned to not only for advice
but for companionship and help in emergencies and make some of even
the most obtrusive signs of physical decay attractive by association
with the higher qualities of soul, as the ugliness of Socrates came
to be almost loved by his disciples. Art understands this and many
of its masterpieces depict old age in its glory. The same is true of
literature and even of the drama, despite the fact that actors who
specialize in old women’s and particularly old men’s parts so often
make age repulsive and ridiculous, for it has always been a most
attractive field for caricature.
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