Church of England -- Sermons; Sermons, English -- 19th century
They can be. And thanks be to the grace of God, they often are. I
can say that I have seen among plain sailors and labouring men as
perfect gentlemen (of God's sort) as man need see; but then they
were _always_ pious and God-fearing men; and so the Spirit of God
had made up to them for any want of scholarship and rank. They were
gentlemen, because God's Spirit had made them gentle. For recollect
all, both rich and poor, what that word gentleman means. It is
simply a man who is gentle; who, let him be as brave or as wise as
he will, yet, as St. Paul says, 'suffers long and is kind; does not
boast, does not behave himself unseemly; is not easily provoked,
thinketh no evil.'
And recollect, too, what that word lady means. Most of you perhaps
do not know. I will tell you. It means, in the ancient English
tongue, a person who gives away bread; who deals out loaves to the
poor. I have often thought that most beautiful, and full of
meaning, a very message from God to all ladies, to tell them what
they ought to be; and not to them only, but to the poorest woman in
the parish; for who is too poor to help her neighbours?
You see there is a difference between a Christian man's duty in this
and a Christian woman's duty, though they both spring from the same
spirit. The man, unless he be a clergyman, has not so much time as
a woman for actually helping his neighbours by acts of charity. He
must till the ground, sail the seas, attend to his business, fight
the Queen's enemies; and the way in which the Holy Spirit of Charity
will show in him will be more in his temper and his language; by
making him patient, cheerful, respectful, condescending, courteous,
reasonable, with every one whom he has to do with: but the woman
has time to show acts of charity which the man has not. She can
teach in the schools, sit by the sick bed, work with her hands for
the suffering and the helpless, even though she cannot with her
head. Above all, she can give those kind looks and kind words which
comfort the broken heart better than money and bodily comforts can
do. And she does do it, thank God! I do not merely mean in such
noble instances of divine charity and self-sacrifice as those ladies
who have gone out to nurse the wounded soldiers in the East--true
ladies, indeed, of whom I fear more than one, ere they return, will
be added to the noble army of martyrs, to receive in return for the
great love which they have shown on earth, the full enjoyment of
God's love in heaven:--not these only, but poor women--women who
could not write their own names--women who had hardly clothes
wherewith to keep themselves warm--women who were toiling all day
long to feed and clothe their own children, till one wondered when
in the twenty-four hours they could find five spare minutes for
helping their neighbours;--such poor women have I seen, who in the
midst of their own daily work and daily care, had still a heart open
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