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‘And _vital feelings of delight_
Shall rear her form to stately height,—
Her virgin bosom swell.
Such thoughts to Lucy I will give,
While she and I together live,
Here in this happy dell.’” {25}
“_Vital_ feelings of delight,” observe. There are deadly feelings of
delight; but the natural ones are vital, necessary to very life.
And they must be feelings of delight, if they are to be vital. Do not
think you can make a girl lovely, if you do not make her happy. There is
not one restraint you put on a good girl’s nature—there is not one check
you give to her instincts of affection or of effort—which will not be
indelibly written on her features, with a hardness which is all the more
painful because it takes away the brightness from the eyes of innocence,
and the charm from the brow of virtue.
This for the means: now note the end.
Take from the same poet, in two lines, a perfect description of womanly
beauty—
“A countenance in which did meet
Sweet records, promises as sweet.”
The perfect loveliness of a woman’s countenance can only consist in that
majestic peace, which is founded in the memory of happy and useful
years,—full of sweet records; and from the joining of this with that yet
more majestic childishness, which is still full of change and
promise;—opening always—modest at once, and bright, with hope of better
things to be won, and to be bestowed. There is no old age where there is
still that promise.
Thus, then, you have first to mould her physical frame, and then, as the
strength she gains will permit you, to fill and temper her mind with all
knowledge and thoughts which tend to confirm its natural instincts of
justice, and refine its natural tact of love.
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