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This, then, I believe to be,—will you not admit it to be,—the woman’s
true place and power? But do not you see that, to fulfil this, she
must—as far as one can use such terms of a human creature—be incapable of
error? So far as she rules, all must be right, or nothing is. She must
be enduringly, incorruptibly good; instinctively, infallibly wise—wise,
not for self-development, but for self-renunciation: wise, not that she
may set herself above her husband, but that she may never fail from his
side: wise, not with the narrowness of insolent and loveless pride, but
with the passionate gentleness of an infinitely variable, because
infinitely applicable, modesty of service—the true changefulness of
woman. In that great sense—“La donna è mobile,” not “Qual piúm’ al
vento”; no, nor yet “Variable as the shade, by the light quivering aspen
made”; but variable as the _light_, manifold in fair and serene division,
that it may take the colour of all that it falls upon, and exalt it.
(II.) I have been trying, thus far, to show you what should be the
place, and what the power of woman. Now, secondly, we ask, What kind of
education is to fit her for these?
And if you indeed think this a true conception of her office and dignity,
it will not be difficult to trace the course of education which would fit
her for the one, and raise her to the other.
The first of our duties to her—no thoughtful persons now doubt this,—is
to secure for her such physical training and exercise as may confirm her
health, and perfect her beauty; the highest refinement of that beauty
being unattainable without splendour of activity and of delicate
strength. To perfect her beauty, I say, and increase its power; it
cannot be too powerful, nor shed its sacred light too far: only remember
that all physical freedom is vain to produce beauty without a
corresponding freedom of heart. There are two passages of that poet who
is distinguished, it seems to me, from all others—not by power, but by
exquisite _rightness_—which point you to the source, and describe to you,
in a few syllables, the completion of womanly beauty. I will read the
introductory stanzas, but the last is the one I wish you specially to
notice:–
“Three years she grew in sun and shower,
Then Nature said, ‘A lovelier flower
On earth was never sown;
This child I to myself will take;
She shall be mine, and I will make
A lady of my own.’
‘Myself will to my darling be
Both law and impulse; and with me
The girl, in rock and plain,
In earth and heaven, in glade and bower,
Shall feel an overseeing power
To kindle, or restrain.’
‘The floating clouds their state shall lend
To her, for her the willow bend;
Nor shall she fail to see,
Even in the motions of the storm,
Grace that shall mould the maiden’s form
By silent sympathy.’
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