Sex & Character: Authorised Translation from the Sixth German EditionWeininger, Otto
Philosophy
Sex & Character: Authorised Translation from the Sixth German Edition
Weininger, Otto
Character; Sex; Sex (Psychology); Sexual ethics
A woman’s relations with married men show how she subordinates her own
sexuality to her match-making instinct, the latter being the dominant
power.
Woman objects more strongly to bachelordom than anything else, because
she is altogether a match-maker, and this makes her try to get men to
marry; but if a man is already married she at once loses most of her
interest in him, however much she liked him before. If the woman herself
is already married, that is to say, when each man she meets is not a
possible solution to her own fate, one would not imagine that a married
man would find less favour with her because he was married than when he
was a bachelor if the woman herself is unfaithful; but women seldom
carry on an intrigue with another woman’s husband, except when they wish
to triumph over her by making him neglect her. This shows that the
disposition of woman is towards the fact of pairing; when men are
already paired she seldom attempts to make them unfaithful, for the fact
of their being paired has satisfied her instinct.
This match-making is the most common characteristic of the human female;
the wish to become a mother-in-law is much more general than even the
desire to become a mother, the intensity and extent of which is usually
over-rated.
My readers may possibly not understand the emphasis I have laid on a
phenomenon which is usually looked upon as amusing as it is disgusting;
and it may be thought that I have given undue importance to it.
But let us see why I have done so. Match-making is essentially the
phenomenon of all others which gives us the key to the nature of woman,
and we must not, as has always been the case, merely acknowledge the
fact and pass on, but we should try to analyse and explain it. One of
our commonest phrases runs: “Every woman is a bit of a match-maker.”
But we must remember that in this, and nothing else, lies the actual
essence of woman. After mature consideration of the most varied types of
women and with due regard to the special classes besides those which I
have discussed, I am of opinion that the only positively general female
characteristic is that of match-making, that is, her uniform willingness
to further the idea of sexual union.
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