Siam and Laos, as Seen by Our American Missionaries
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Siam and Laos, as Seen by Our American Missionaries
Laos -- Description and travel; Missions -- Laos; Missions -- Thailand; Thailand -- Description and travel
The bridegroom sits apart from the women, among his young men
attendants, and has not been near enough to extend a tender pressure
of the hand, nor would he dare to offend the Siamese ideas of
propriety, for, although she is so nearly his own, a slight breach of
etiquette on his part might blast his hopes.
Conversation flows on, the sound of merry voices telling of happiness
and good-will. All have been served, and the feast is over. The money
has been brought forward and counted by reliable persons and found
correct. Both sums are then thrown together and sprinkled with rice,
scented oil and flowers, symbolic of blessings craved for the young
couple. It is then handed over to the parents of the bride for
safe-keeping.
The wedding-gifts have been formally presented and duly admired.
Siamese wedding-gifts are few and simple. Many of the utensils in use
among them are quite primitive in style――unglazed earthen pots for
cooking purposes; brazen vessels, trays, cups and spoons or small
ladles; heavy wooden buckets and baskets daubed within and without
with pitch, used for carrying water; common porcelain bowls for
holding their rice and vegetables at meals,――no knives, no forks, no
spoons, such as young housekeepers need with us. As they have little
that is ornamental in an ordinary home, the wedding-gifts are always
useful articles.
[Illustration: MISSION HOUSE.]
The afternoon is now far spent and the hum of many voices is somewhat
subdued. The band strikes up a sort of wedding-march. The groom,
attired in plum-colored silk p’anoong and a neatly-fitting white
muslin jacket, rises, and, leaving the group, attended by his young
friends, dressed in the same style, bare-legged and bare-headed, walks
toward the neighboring house of the American missionary. At a
respectful distance follow some of the matrons, aged women and
maidens. Amid them, like a gay butterfly, dressed in a red and yellow
silk waist-cloth, a brilliant green silk, tight-fitting jacket and a
fire-colored silk scarf thrown gracefully over her shoulders, walks
the young bride――no shoes or stockings, no hat nor veil to hide her
pretty blushes. The guests all go up through the veranda into the
house, where they are welcomed by the missionary. Chairs are offered,
but many prefer to crouch on the floor, as they have never been
elevated above it in all their lives. The Christian marriage that
follows is a novel episode to many present. At a Siamese wedding the
Buddhist priests come to the house and chant prayers for the benefit
of the young couple. The parents of the bride and bridegroom and all
the guests vie with each other in their attention to these priests,
who receive gifts also. The young couple are copiously bathed with
holy water, poured by the elders first on the head of the bridegroom,
then on the head of the bride, pronouncing a blessing upon each. This
of course necessitates a change of wet apparel for dry, usually more
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