Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social WorkerCabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
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Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social Worker
Cabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
Charities, Medical; Friendly visiting; Medical social work -- United States; Social service
Social treatment, then, is chiefly, the giving and building of health,
pleasure, money, beauty, information, education, courage. It is not
because we have such a tremendous stock of those goods to give away, but
because we know that we must somehow help a person to self-help in those
directions or else be superficial, that I have phrased social treatment
in those terms.
4. _Creative listening in social treatment_
One of the simple and yet honestly useful things that we can do in
social work is to give a man a hearing. Often he will solve his own
problems with the aid of a little information from one whom he trusts
and has talked things out with. But this implies unusual powers of
listening on the social worker's part. It implies what Mr. R. H.
Schauffler calls _creative listening_. Some of the most delightful
friendships are those one makes through a magazine. In the "Atlantic
Monthly" some years ago I saw an article on playing string quartets by a
man whom I had never heard of, Mr. Robert H. Schauffler. Mr.
Schauffler's writings, which I came to know through this article,
contain many interesting points, but nothing so valuable to me as the
essay on "The Creative Listener."[5] It was founded upon an
autobiographical incident. As a musical amateur he used to attend
orchestral concerts in what was then his home city, Chicago. He used to
go with a certain group of friends, his brother and others, who liked to
sit together because they found that in this way they enjoyed the music
more. Ordinarily they were very regular in their attendance. But one
evening for some reason they had to miss the concert, and then it came
to their knowledge that the orchestra had felt their absence very much,
and really could not play their best without them. This is true. There
are people whose attention makes us play or speak or act better than we
could otherwise. We have known it in friendship We all know that some
people when we talk with them, make us feel as if we really were worth
something, had some ideas. Others are destructive listeners who make us
feel as if we had no ideas; our personality seems destroyed.
I think it is perfectly within the province of any of us to make himself
more of a creative listener than he has been before. For creative
listening is due in part to the intensity of our sympathy, the
whole-heartedness with which for the time being we give ourselves to the
person we are with.
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