Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social WorkerCabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
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Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social Worker
Cabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
Charities, Medical; Friendly visiting; Medical social work -- United States; Social service
1. We want to do social work because we have got something that we must
share, something that is too hot to hold. There is a false emphasis,
approaching sentimentality, in saying that our social work is done
because of our love for the individual people to whom we give. We have a
hope that some day we may know a few of these people well enough to say
that we love them. But that is hope, not fact or present impulse. Hence
it is not right (although it is not a fearful error) to say that we do
social work for love of the particular individuals whom we try to help.
We are looking for an opportunity and are grateful for the opportunity
that social work gives us, to pass on the gifts which we are grateful
for, not as has sometimes been said, to people whom we love but to every
one who needs them.
That may seem a very slight difference of emphasis. I think it is a very
important difference of emphasis. We are in a much more self-respecting
position if we do not have to think of ourselves as having already
conquered at the beginning that which we aspire to win in the end, a
personal affection for all our patients. If we remember that our
patients are (unconsciously) doing us a favor in allowing us to pass on
something to them, and that although we may have found a genuine need,
still we are grateful to them because they want what we have to give,
then our work is humble and free from taint of Pharisaism.
2. The second principle is: _give as one passing on that which is not
our own_. That is familiar enough in relation to money. Any one who has
any money and any capacity for thoughtfulness, knows that his money is
not his own. Whether it happens to be literally in trust or not, the
only right he has is the right of rightly choosing what he will do with
it. He holds it rightfully just so long as he needs to find the chance,
the best opportunity for passing it on.
Such a sense of trusteeship we ought to feel about everything that we
have and want to give: beauty, information, education, affection, and
courage. One should give them (if he can!) not as one who has any
special merits, not as one having property which is one's own, but as
one who has received without any possible deserts an incredible wealth
and would like above all things to share it because it is not his own.
3. We ought to _give and build_, because the effects of any giving that
is not also building will not last. Our bodies and our souls are what
they are because of what has been given and built into them by nature
and by man. The same energy which burns in our bodies and knows in our
consciousness should make us desire always to give and build by giving,
because we have ourselves been built up of such gifts.
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